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The toughest choice a human being can have is one where they change their Mind….

I have the most amazing privilege of showing people new perspectives on things. As you may or may not know, I have been exposed to an unusual combination of Real Sales and Marketing Training, NLP Training and a huge exposure to Personal Development. The point is, after being in business for most of my life, the experiences and knowledge I have gained have now placed me in a position where I CLEARLY SEE multiple perspectives on any given situation. It is the viewpoint of any and all situations that allows us to change our perspective and approach – OUR MINDSET…. It is our Mindset that will dictate our behavior.

Now that was a mouthful and a half, so let’s think about this. If our Mindset or our Belief is of the nature that we can easily accomplish something – then we set out, and many times we accomplish it. You see, our Mindset is our most important ally. It is created by our conditioned belief system. It is the foundation of who we are and what our mission with each gift of a day will be. So our environment, our upbringing, the people we choose to have around us and listen to, all play a role first in our beliefs, then our Mindset.

So after being in the direct sales industry and network marketing for now nearly 8 years, I began really studying people and what they are up to. I saw clearly what happens over and over again when people look at things BUT DON’T CHANGE THEIR MINDSET – They Fail. So, years ago, I began asking more questions to determine what it was in their belief  system that causes them to freeze up and not take action steps, that they themselves already see proof and have evidence as to their potentail. The culmination of 8 years of watching, observing, learning, and most of all absolutely calculating the exact point at which an individual will GIVE UP – AND LIMIT THEIR PERSPECTIVE TO ONLY THEIR OWN – and I found it.

So, my mission, and the permanent mission of Mindset Merchants, will be first to get people past thier toughest decision ever….. To Change their Mindset and Behavior to that of an Entrepreneur. Then we have a REAL SYSTEM so People learn to EMPOWER themselves, to command all of their abilities and line them up with the proper Mindset – so they live the Business and Personal life they have decided to.

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Stay tuned for info on this blog that will assist you in having the choice of what Mindset to have.

Here is something most people do not consider; are your reacting or are you responding? One requires no thoughts, no on purpose selection of behavior, the other requires you to think. You must think about your behavior. You must make a choice as to how you allow whatever it is that is occurring to effect you. Why, because it is this constant course of behavior that will determine your attitude all day long. When in reaction mode your emotions run the show which can be very very chaotic. When in response you allow your thoughts to participate in the outcome of a situation. When your thoughts are involved you can make choices to change the direction of the situation. When only your emotions are involved – like attracts like – so if you fly on emotion it tends to increase or become more and more of what you are reacting to. Remember, emotionally you are transmitting a vibration, that vibration will attract more and more of the same vibration – Good or Bad.

SITUATION : Lets set the table for this. Say the situation at hand is that you are driving down the road in your car. Someone comes up from behind you and begins tailgating you and you are on a fairly narrow, curvy road. Upon first notice you feel your vibration of aggravation creeping up on you. You begin to feel a twinge of anger. Your emotions begin to take hold….. This situation continues to expand as this individual continues to creep closer and closer to the back of your car. A few more moments pass by and then this individual moves his or her car around you and in the process passes you (Because you are beginning to react in anger you accelerate to make his action of passing that much more challenging). In doing so they cut so close to the front corner of your car that you must hit the brakes and swerve to avoid the two cars colliding.

REACTION : So now as your temper flares, you decide (And it is a decision) to pursue this lunatic. You are going to “show them” or give them piece of your mind. You begin to race after them. Letting go all sense of reality in driving angry and without caution. You chase the individual down and as your temper continues to flare, you engauge in the next non-productive reaction. A Confrontation. In this confrontation you end up in a physical or at the very least a mental and verbal battle that proceeds to waste even more of your time……. I need not go further as this situation could get worse and worse but you get the picture. Your reaction in anger takes you on a non productive path and even more unsettling time wasting chaos.  As a result of all of this you end up 10 minutes late to an appointment. Then the person you are meeting with becomes annoyed at you for your vibration is of stress and anger. The purpose of the meeting goes unfulfilled for they don’t even wish to be around you…. See where I am going here?

RESPOND : Now lets assume the same thing happens to you and instead of reacting you decide to slow down and allow that tailgater to pass you buy. A few miles up the road you end up next to the tailgater and a light and you come to find that this person has a pregnant passenger in the the car with him – about to give birth. The person is not angry or hostile – remember your anger caused their anger in the REACTION….. This person is scared to death. You immediately render assistance and call for help. At the same time you call ahead to your appointment and let them know you will be late and why. As you describe with compassion what is going on and what you are doing your appointment feels that vibration and also begins to feel that compassion. Their vibration matches yours. Ultimately when you do meet up with your appointment you have a phenomenal meeting and accomplish exactly what you set out to do.

Now both these situations have a similar start and a dramatically different outcome. All because you chose to RESPOND instead of REACT.  In studying human behavior, I have found this process of responding over – overreacting to be one of the largest leaps people can make in creating the life they really desire. It is an absolute Success Principle. The person that thinks and responds is in control of their future and the person that reacts has no control over anything.

Imagine if you slowed down and viewed every situation you encounter with the compassion and thought of more possibilities than just your emotional response….. Think about how many situations throughout your life that could have had a DRAMATICALLY DIFFERENT outcome if you chose to approach things from a different angle. Always remember the “Law of Attraction”, like it or not, it is always at work. The moment you make this choice to live life more on purpose and with thought and focus on what you do want instead of an emotional reaction in trying to change what is going on is the moment life becomes AWESOME. It becomes awesome for you have become on purpose and no longer are your pure emotions recreating what you don’t want.

Remember that the “Law of Attraction” will recreate and re-attract exactly what your EMOTIONS and THOUGHTS are focused upon. So today in as many situations as you can, make a choice. Make a choice to RESPOND and not REACT and I believe you will see some tremendous changes in life turning out just the way you wanted it to in the first place. Make sure you use your emotional charges for the great things around you and for the right things with the people you love and watch what happens.

Elevate

The principles discussed here are in a phenomenal life changing product : “Elevate”. Elevate is the core of the teachings involved in a business designed to change not only lives but peoples personal finances. In doing so we create wealth for people in a home based business – Avant. The biggest gift in this business is not the money but the fact that we make fortunes not for the sale but for the life changes when people begin to REACT instead of RESPOND….

As a founding member of one of the most extraordinary companies in the world – Avant (TM), I am constantly asked about “The Law of Attraction”. Constantly questioned on why I am able to create large sums of Income and large streams of success. Why is it so very easy for me and how come I can constantly duplicate the process over and over again?? The answer lies in your ability to create a Vibrational Match with whatever you desire in your life.

Often times we refer to this method of creating as “Be Do Have”. Be as the successful are “being”; Do as the successful are “doing”; And then you will have what the successful are “having”…..NOT SO FAST…. There is indeed a missing piece of this puzzle. In fact, unless you have the “Vibrational Match”, you could Be, Do and Attempt at Having, and it will just never manifest. So what we will outline today will give you the recipe not for “Be, Do, Have” but for achieving the Vibrational Match, that when practiced will remove all the mystery as to why your goals may or may not be manifesting. We will then clarify what you must physically do and think to bring Vibrational Harmony into play so the Law of Attraction works in your life – TODAY!!!

Since everything is “Vibrational” or works based on the feeling surrounding all of the situations we get into, we must become aware of this. Not only must we become aware of this, but must understand that the feeling, or vibrations, must be in total harmony with who you wish to be or what you strongly desire. If we have a desire or goal and the feeling surrounding that dream or desire is not in harmony then you are actually supplying resistance to exactly what you want.

You must ask yourself  “what will it FEEL like to be there or to have that certain thing?”  To use all of the power available to you when you ask yourself this question you MUST feel the wonder of all of the experience of already having it or being there.  If you view yourself as NEEDING it, you are out of vibrational harmony.  If you find yourself feeling that you might be there or might be there soon, you are not in vibrational harmony.  If you are sitting there and justifying WHY you must have it or WHY you are entitled to it, you are supplying resistance to it.  If you are desiring something to compensate for something else, you are not there and you are using The Law of Attraction against you.  However, if your feelings are in total GRATITUDE & APPRECIATION of already having it, already loving the experience of appreciating it, then YOU ARE THERE. When your expectations are accompanied by a vibration of knowing it is coming and this causes a tingle in your belly in its arrival, YOU ARE THERE. At that very moment that tingle IS “The Law of Attraction” in action.

Here is another exercise to check your vibration; and this will assist you in building a business towards real life results and wealth.

How do you REALLY REALLY FEEL about Rich People? If your thinking about Rich People is that, “well I’ll be different when I am rich”.  If there is a feeling of the “Rich” being a separate entity  or separate from you, then you are using the Law of Attraction against yourself.  Notice the feeling surrounding “those rich people” as you separate yourself from them….. The rich are NOT separate.  When you do this, this is what’s known as Vibrational Discord or Resistance. Removing and reshaping your thinking surrounding this allows you to dramatically increase the vibration in harmony with your desired experience.

So the first step in this recipe is to become aware.  Take ownership of the fact that you have made the choice to feel the way you do.  You are the one who separated yourself from the rich by your chosen feelings.  Once you allow yourself to be untied with them and experience things from the perspective of acceptance and belonging, and explore those feelings, you then will be using The Law of Attraction and Vibrationally Matching your strongest desires.  I encourage you to do so and join those people doing this who are experiencing life to its fullest.

Try this over the next few days and then come back here and comment on your results.  I will add a post later this week that will build upon this and allow you to take this further.  There will be more instructions on exercises that you can do to increase the speed at which you manifest things in your life. Over the next 10 Blog Entries, you will learn the methods I use to have the Law of Attraction work in every area and aspect of my life. Tune in and learn and you will receive an enormous gift.

In Gratitude – David Varrone.