Posts Tagged ‘Happiness’

Keeping & Protecting Your Positive VIBE

Friday, January 20th, 2012
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Today’s Topic : Keeping & Protecting Your Positive VIBE : We spent time this week Learning exactly how a combination of your Vibe and Your Words, when they are “Congruent” or “In Integrity” with each other, create The Powerful Communicator in YOU.

So the Number 1 Question I received back from all of you was in this context…. David, you always seem to be positive but you have it easy because things always appear to be going your way. How do you get things to be going your way? Along with the Follow Up : When things go wrong, how do you bring yourself back to that Positive Powerful Vibe?

Well you cannot FORCE yourself to feel something you do not feel. You must relax in knowing that thing are the way they are for at some point in your past you created them. First with YOUR THOUGHTS, you focused thinking time effort and energy in a direction…Then after that practice of focusing those thoughts for a period of time, you did in fact begin to speak those words about that “Stuff” in a particular way. This works in all areas of your life. This cocktail of thoughts and words becomes a sea saw back and forth as to what comes first. Over a period of time it begins to create a ——– Belief. The belief you have IS your Vibe or Vibration… So as your words and thoughts flow – therein lies your solutions as to how you can alter your vibe and thus alter how the Law of Attraction works for you.

IN today’s call we will review this and most importantly SHOW you how this vibe runs the Law of Attraction. We’ll show you precisely why the same stuff keeps showing up in your life and most importantly what you can do to change this. We’ll roll this into DESERVABILITY, so that by the end of today’s call you will all have the tools necessary to change that VIBE to one that with confidence knows and creates exactly what it Deserves.

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Power vs. Force : With The Law of Attraction

Tuesday, January 17th, 2012
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Today’s Topic : Power vs. Force….. Today we’ll begin the journey down the path of instead of pressuring people into what you want them to do (FORCE), using the Law of Attraction, that will allow them to see your Natural Power.
Many people, when they become self employed are doing just that. Entering a world where whether they KNOW IT or NOT they must become a different person. They must become AWARE of two very important factors :

1) Their Vibration : The feelings that they are pushing out there that create feelings in others.

2) Their Integrity : Not just in the Sense of the real world definition of Integrity, but the feeling they are pushing out there with what they are saying or doing. Without alignment of those two things they can only force and have NO POWER.

The largest lesson in life I ever received was working with someone – whose words were the utmost of integrity, however, his VIBE, or the feelings he created were 100% Diametrically Opposed to his words. Therefor – no matter how hard we worked toward the stated excellent goal…. The situation was and still is powerless.

So today we’ll discuss this Power vs. Force thing. You will understand how I learned through that experience to bring 100% Integrity into my life and more importantly the dynamic reason WHY without forcing anyone I can build Great Teams that WANT to work together and make things happen.

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The Toughest Choice – Changing Mindset

Tuesday, August 30th, 2011

The toughest choice a human being can have is one where they change their Mind….

I have the most amazing privilege of showing people new perspectives on things. As you may or may not know, I have been exposed to an unusual combination of Real Sales and Marketing Training, NLP Training and a huge exposure to Personal Development. The point is, after being in business for most of my life, the experiences and knowledge I have gained have now placed me in a position where I CLEARLY SEE multiple perspectives on any given situation. It is the viewpoint of any and all situations that allows us to change our perspective and approach – OUR MINDSET…. It is our Mindset that will dictate our behavior.

Now that was a mouthful and a half, so let’s think about this. If our Mindset or our Belief is of the nature that we can easily accomplish something – then we set out, and many times we accomplish it. You see, our Mindset is our most important ally. It is created by our conditioned belief system. It is the foundation of who we are and what our mission with each gift of a day will be. So our environment, our upbringing, the people we choose to have around us and listen to, all play a role first in our beliefs, then our Mindset.

So after being in the direct sales industry and network marketing for now nearly 8 years, I began really studying people and what they are up to. I saw clearly what happens over and over again when people look at things BUT DON’T CHANGE THEIR MINDSET – They Fail. So, years ago, I began asking more questions to determine what it was in their belief  system that causes them to freeze up and not take action steps, that they themselves already see proof and have evidence as to their potentail. The culmination of 8 years of watching, observing, learning, and most of all absolutely calculating the exact point at which an individual will GIVE UP – AND LIMIT THEIR PERSPECTIVE TO ONLY THEIR OWN – and I found it.

So, my mission, and the permanent mission of Mindset Merchants, will be first to get people past thier toughest decision ever….. To Change their Mindset and Behavior to that of an Entrepreneur. Then we have a REAL SYSTEM so People learn to EMPOWER themselves, to command all of their abilities and line them up with the proper Mindset – so they live the Business and Personal life they have decided to.

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Stay tuned for info on this blog that will assist you in having the choice of what Mindset to have.

 

 

Success In a Home Based Business = Belief + Determination + A Plan

Wednesday, December 15th, 2010

As an Industry Leader and Top Income Earner, not only in the company AVANT, but in the home based industry as a whole, I am constantly asked – what’s my Formula For Success??  Just this past week an associate and business partner asked me this again but in tears of frustration…. I thought about it and stopped myself dead in the middle of my normal leadership diatribe and realized that she and most people are not listening. They are not hearing what they are actually looking for….

In this conversation as I stopped myself I began to listen to what thoughts this individual was focusing on. Truly not trying to overcome her fears or her concerns but just listening to what she was focused on. In that listening I found the challenge that must first be overcome for ANY business, Home Based or otherwise, to work.  That is a belief above all else that you trust yourself enough to KNOW that you will find a way to accomplish anything, from marketing to building that customer relationship, no matter what challenges arise. I listened further and came to the realization that my purpose with these people all along, the actual purpose that caused leaders to rise to the occasion and make things happen, was my unwavering belief in their ability to have belief in themselves…

Once they clearly got that aspect, they became independently empowered. Suddenly they had the mindset and self created determination to make things happen no matter what the challenge was. What caused it in this conversation you may be wondering??? This person first asked questions as to why it was so easy for me to create $18,000 one week in income and then $35,000 in another???? So my initial defense was, well first I do #1 and then I do #2 and so on…. I realized mechanically they were doing exactly what I was doing but not getting a result. Literally they were doing EXACTLY what I was and not receiving even one penny in income. Same Ads, same $$$ spent on advertising….. What was it that could allow me to do so well and this person to get ZERO ZILCH NADA???? Worse, why are some getting it and some not???

So I sat down last night with a pad and pen and went back to my batteries of notes and journals and again history revealed a pattern. Not just about Vibration and the Law of Attraction but of something more, something deeper. The people that came to me with a shred of belief in themselves orchestrated their interface with me differently. They were not full of BS in what they were going to do. They shared their goals and beliefs and were real not lying to themselves. That allowed us to begin on a vibrational basis to communicate beliefs clearly. That “Open-Heartedness” did something else. It allowed me to reach out to them with my beliefs in them. They had someone on their side… They had attracted a leader, a mentor into their world who, because they were honest with themselves and myself, would give unwavering belief in their own vision of themselves. They were then Super-Empowered.

That empowerment spilled into HOW they were communicating with everyone around them. So what did that cause?? It caused those people who were in this focus and level of self-truthfulness to begin to have unwavering confidence in the decisions they made. They became ON PURPOSE. Not in a way of pushing or bullying or selling people into something. They become a warm strength that people wanted to work with and listen to. In that, they began to become a leader. These people became so on purpose that they began to duplicate my results almost instantly while others struggled……

So today I am beyond grateful for my journey, and not just for this shocking revelation, but for the fact that the history of my successes for the past 6 1/2 years had some deeper larger lesson and meaning. If I have a vision and belief in the people I assist, and they are truthful with their beliefs when we meet up initially, I can and will create a path where people will become leaders and will achieve their dreams.

This skill of being a Visionary Empowered Leader has been taught to me over time, but has really came into clarity through Avant and its core Product Elevate. The fact that we can learn to be these Visionary Empowered Leaders that truly teach people a path to success comes directly from that. So as those people new to me read this – call me and we can talk about how I just may be able to empower you and show you how to create your own path to success. 954-349-7386 my Home Number and 954-649-3363 my cell number.

Why Gratitude ? Because…….

Monday, October 11th, 2010

So whats all this nonsense about Gratitude? Why do we hear this over and over again? “You must be in a state of Gratitude!!!” At first thought, years ago when I began studying Personal Development, I asked myself – Gratitude about what? Am I missing something? I am working on myself and not yet “there” so what am I to be grateful about? I really did not understand vibrational matches and being something that you are working towards in feeling first. That vibration allows the universe to bring things onto your path that will allow the exact things that will make you grateful to become “easy” and just happen naturally.

Each and every person has a choice to  either have an emotional response or an emotional reaction to everything that happens to them. It is at that very moment over and over again that we have a choice to react or respond. In that very moment we transmit a vibration that absolutely communicates to the universe that we want more of whatever that broadcast sent out.

Think about the most wonderful feelings you have ever felt of Love or Passion for a moment. Concentrate on those feelings; bring out a memory of your significant other and the passion and love you have felt for them. Really feel it and hold onto that feeling for a moment. Can you begin to feel the vibrations that this thought creates? Now take that one step further. Lock onto those vibrations and engage in a conversation with that person and take notice of what is happening. Choose to become aware of how they are reacting to your warm charged feelings. Notice how their behavior begins to warm up to you. Carefully notice the fact that your vibrational broadcast created a feeling, no matter how slight or trivial, in this other person of connection and of warmth as well. Really think about this as you do it and become cognizant of just how powerful you are at causing things in your relationships. It is easiest to see in a relationship with someone you are close to. Know for certain this is actually at play on this positive side of the spectrum of the Law of Attraction as it is on the negative side of this Law.

Now lets take a look at the opposite side of the spectrum. Complete Anger and Negativity. Perhaps someone wronged you in some way. You then turn around and become angry or broadcast an angry or negative feeling. Immediately that person reacts or responds in a similar way. In some cases out of defense to remove responsibility, in other situations to prove you wrong. Anger and Negativity are the complete opposite in the feelings associated or vibrations associated with being in a state of gratitude. Notice what happens with that person you are engaging with when you are OUT of Gratitude. Become aware of what occurs when you behave in an Angry or Negative or shall we say OUT of Gratitude Manner.

As you play these little exercises out come to KNOW that truly, the real way to get things done rapidly and with the assistance of not just others around you, but all aspect of the universe as well, is to be in a state of Gratitude. Only in that state of Gratitude will the Vibrational matches constantly and continuously be created – BY YOU. When this begins to happen life will fall into a flow and pattern of “Going Your Way”.

There are many steps and things you can do to get your mindset into a state of constant gratitude. Contact me and I will be more than happy to assist you in than manner. I use a product “Elevate“. It is an educational product that has assisted me in raising my awareness so that this all became clear to me. It was created by a company Avant. This has had a huge impact on every area of my life. Check this all out and any way I can assist further in sharing in this blog, comment back.

Define Your Dreams – Step 1 in Making it Happen

Monday, October 4th, 2010

I coach and teach many people to expand their awareness with the use of a product Elevate. The reason I use Elevate is that it is a comprehensive program designed to lift them out of their “IF ONLY” thinking into one of more possibilities. It is essential for people to become aware of this fact for if life is constantly based on “If Onlys” then how could we ever grow or expand.

The first step in getting out of your own way is to eliminate the following thoughts and statements from your vocabulary :

1) When I have _______________, I will be happy.

2) When I fix _______________, I will be happy.

3) I need _______________, then I will be happy.

We must start in a place of being grateful for what we have by literally making a list, an inventory of all that is already in our lives. Once the list is compiled it is essential that we clearly look at our perspective of each and every thing. We must change our perspective of each and every thing in our lives so that we are in appreciation of them or it. One example would be a dog. Dogs can be a kind loving addition to a family, bonding them together with memories and fun. When cared for, a dog gives its love of the family unconditionally. That is one perspective. Another perspective is one of a tiresome responsibility to have the dog. That perspective is full of “work and aggravation”. Cleaning, feeding, taking care of the animal none of which is empowering or feels good or even has one ounce of Gratitude in it.

Once we have a great gratitude filled perspective we can, from there, begin to dream up what we would be grateful for if those dreams became part of our experience. It is essential that we set the stage in a feeling of future gratitude; for that energy is the energy that will drive us to do everything we will be required to achieve the desired goals. This magical way of allowing thoughts to expand in the future gratitude allows us to see how we will feel in the future. Magically our own efforts, language and motivation push us in the direction of making things happen so that we achieve our dreams.

If you are interested in learning more – contact me – David Varrone at : 954-349-7386.

The Echo of Life – It’s Really Your Subconscious

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

Recently I had the Opportunity to be in a large empty stadium and one of my children yelled out – and of course it echoed back. As always when you hear an echo it is indeed amusing. A re-sounding of a statement made out to the world comes right back at you. The larger the area, chamber, or “stadium” you are in, the longer the phrase is that repeats back to you without it repeating over itself. Ever wonder why echo’s exists? Well I believe they exists for one of those little BIG lessons in life.

Your daily living and thoughts are your own personal echo chamber. You see what you tell your self in thoughts and in out loud verbalization’s echo back. Since your mind is truly infinite in its capacities, the statements we make to ourselves can be volumes long and ALL of them do indeed “echo”. The more we concentrate on a thought the more we hear that thought. The more we hear that thought and verbalization of it especially, the more it becomes a “mantra”. The more it becomes a “Mantra” the more it becomes who we are.

So it is very important to allow thoughts that move us in the direction of our goals and dreams, of who we wish to be. Then the “ECHO” of life works for us instead of against us. If we choose thoughts in the knowing of what we want and verbalize them – then and only then are we using the “Law of Attraction” to its fullest power. Focused thoughts on Positive Goal Motivated Activities create space in our minds to actually then go and do, and carry out actions that will cause all that we are wishing for to come into our lives.

So today, pretend your thoughts and vocal statements were all screamed out loud in an large stadium. Listen for that Echo back and notice your feeling surrounding the echo back. Notice and become AWARE that this echo is actually what your subconscious is hearing. KNOW that your subconscious wastes no time in creating actions that will fulfill what it is hearing as your desires.

So as you begin becoming aware of this remember – the echo is what the subconscious hears, therefor a great deal of caution must be used in what is screamed out there…. Outlined below I will give you a couple of good examples and a couple of funny and not so good examples :

GOOD

1. I am loosing weight and getting healthier and healthier each day

- The subconscious mind will support you and guild you to more physical activities and a healthier eating style.

2. I am really accomplishing a great deal in my work. Sales are actually many times greater than my goals were. My income is skyrocketing.

- The subconscious mind will then allow excitement to come into play and motivation to do more and achieve more will occur. This will actually create an environment that will allow you to do just what you allowed to echo.

3. I am an excellent cook and create healthful and nutritional meals.

- This will actually create a pattern of thoughts and actions that will allow you to seek out healthful foods and recipies and create them.

NOT-SO-GOOD

1. I am feeling Fat and Out of Shape.

- This will create a feeling of not being able to become healthy. Your subconscious will assist you in giving up on being healthy. You will eat the wrong things and never work towards exercise or eating healthy.

2. I will never hit my Income Goals – I will never be that number one Sales / Customer Service / Engineer….

- This will allow your subconscious mind to “GIVE UP”. It will allow your subconscious mind to create an environment where you don’t go the extra mile to make things happen. You “WILL NEVER” so Why Bother.

So here you have a micro lesson in “The Law of Attraction”. Your mind is the most powerful creative tool you have. Controlling the focus of thought allows you to harness it’s power. The thoughts you choose to focus on with emotion creates who you will be and how you will behave. Controlling this is so very important. What I do for a living is teach precisely how to do that. Avant, a company I am a Founding Participant in, is all about AWARENESS. We teach you how to do all of this so you not only control the Echo of Life, you become the master and creator of your life instead of living it by chance and as a victim.

I am an experienced life-coach that ties all of this into a format to maximize results in your life or business. I offer one on one consultations so that you get results in your life. If you are in business or would like to be, then reach out and contact : David Varrone at 954-349-7386. My door is always open to assist people in these transformations. I have watched and assisted many who clean up the Echo’s and that has been phenomenal. People get to achieve what they truly desire and it happens FAST. I look forward to being of service.

Beleif or Knowing – What’s the Difference?

Monday, August 30th, 2010

To have “belief” in something means that you have confidence in something without necessarily having concrete evidence that it is. To “know” or to be “knowing” of something means that you not only believe that something is, but you have evidence to support that belief is indeed for real. So where does that come into play in the world of a Home Based Business or in Personal Development? Well, simply put, often before we ever know we must fly on belief that something will occur, that a business can indeed be established and make a profit.

So the question is, how do we do that? How do we develop a belief in something so that it warrants our efforts behind it? Nearly every single day in the last 6 years of being in a Home Based Business I am asked that very question, “David – it all sounds good but how do we know it is indeed possible”?  My answer is very simple, spend some time and listen to exactly what the successful are doing in a Home Based Business.

In my case it is simple.  I chose a company with amazing products in the field of Personal Development for I knew that would allow me to create not only a vision of success, but it would assist me in creating exactly what I visualize in terms of success.  I chose Avant (TM); for its products allow each of us to explore the power of our own visualizations and all that is possible.  It also allows us to focus all energy, time and resources in a manner never seen before. Ultimately Avant also compensates each of its Home Based Business Owners in a manner that is absolutely NOT duplicated anywhere in world, in any business.  Once you understand their products and what they have to offer – all explained in a teleconference, you can listen to a recorded version at : 1-618-355-1590,  or you can listen to it live online at TELECONFERENCE – it almost becomes a “no-brainer” to get involved and share something that will effect and change the lives of every single person that touches the products or business.

Simply put, the products are like no other.  Never  before in the history of Personal Development has something been created that puts the power of YEARS or even a LIFETIME of study into a complete program that creates results the first day you touch it and then amplifies those effects exponentially over time.  When you couple that with a compensation plan that creates 6 figures part time, and a residual of over 6 figures for retirement, you have something that will completely take care of an individual both personally and financially.

I invite all that read this blog to tune in now 2-3 times per week.  In that you will find bits and pieces, lessons on parts of what you will receive major lessons on in Personal Development.  For those that wish to become involved as a Mentored Business Partner, the future holds some great things for you, and I look forward to assisting you.

As always, feel free to contact my home office at 954-349-7386.

Entrepreneur – Are You One?

Friday, August 27th, 2010

Entrepreneur – Are You One? Now that’s an interesting question. Even today after nearly 20 years being one, I often ask myself that question. Why ? Some of you reading this may think – why would an Entrepreneur ask himself such a question if he already is? Well the answer to that in my mind is one of checking one’s own path, one’s own commitment to his or her dreams and goals, and most importantly;  are they creating something for the benefit of others so that not only do they personally grow but so that all of the people that do business with them also receives an experience whereby they come away with more than they originally engaged me for.

Entrepreneurs, which I do believe I am, are creators and trail blazers. They must create a product or a service which brings something different to the world or marketplace they are in. When they do, they then and only then, do they have a perceived value. Years ago in manufacturing I created a niche in business of constructing product based upon a designers idea’s. The value that I added was one where I took the vision of what that designer created and then made it into something that could be produced and used in everyday sportswear while knowing that the general public wants something that looks amazing (just like the designer designed it) but was bullet proof. Meaning it had to look Magnificent while being constantly abused and mishandled.

I was in Textile Fabric and Garment Manufacturing. I had learned great technical knowledge as a factory worker as a teenager and placed all that knowledge behind the simple fact that an Artist would design stuff often as fragile as an egg shell that would have to be interpreted and then recreated for the real world.

So what does that have with being an Entrepreneur or where does that play into questioning oneself about being or becoming one. Well here is the connection…. You see everyday as an Entrepreneur you will be faced with idea’s, concepts, challenges, and people. In those face offs, if you come to the table with the Positive “Never Giving Up” attitude you can take those marvelous egg shells and create a niche in every single engagement.

As a Home Business Coach and Entrepreneur, this is what I absolutely teach people to do. I show them precisely how to turn any situation they are involved in into an opportunity to serve themselves as well as those they are involved with. This creates a VERY POSITIVE ATMOSPHERE that promotes new ideas and new ways of doing things. This creates Niches within highly competitive industries and allows people to discover their own talents and create their own successes. I am no Guru, but I absolutely do know how to show you that we ALL can be Entrepreneurs if we choose. It is precisely why I am able to take an average struggling home business owner, show them this process, and then immediately get results that create wealth – REAL WEALTH. So as you ask yourself this question when reading this Blog – feel free to reach back out to me as I just may guide you to where you have always wanted to go. You can always call me at 954-349-7386.

Lies or Leadership – This Ought to Rock The MLM World

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

I find myself in such an interesting position these days. I am in a incredible leadership position at a Hybrid MLM Direct Sales Company Avant ™.  Hybrid meaning we are not just a direct sales company with retail profits but we are also a company that has many layers of residual income. I enjoy both sides of our compensation plan, every day I am able to generate profits upfront in retail and every week I also get to enjoy residual income from a rapidly growing organization. Over the past few days I had an interesting experience and it inspired me to share with all those looking at this blog. I sent quite a few people to a presentation where they heard many of my business associates announcing results from the use of Elevate ™ in their lives, our core product, and then a number of people announcing their personal financial results. The responses that I began to get from people were challenging, very challenging.

So I took a step back and began analyzing my own view of not only those around me who are having stellar results at Avant ™ , but in general I began to see something I had never seen before. There are some people you can absolutley feel are empowered and their vibration dictates total leadership and not only are they getting those results but they are in fact exceeding them. So I dug further. I keep all my personal journals over the years and I went back on a fact finding missions to see the vibration of myself on weeks that I had created an income (yes in one week) in excess of $20,000 and there it was. It was a vibrational display of the magnificence and harmony of life when desires and goals are in flow with what is actually going on. So as you all begin to look into the home based business industry and you hear results from products and particularly income claims listen not so much to the words but to the vibrations. If the vibrations sound like a symphony of sound that immediately gets through – well there you have a leader blazing a path you can follow. If it sounds like a band out of tune – well there you also have it it is a liar. This is what I advised all of those challenging people.

So crucial is it that you identify this, for if you do you will connect with a life changing product as well as an income you never dreamed possible. Six and a half years ago I found a company that did this for me. Then there was a time where that magic disappeared as the company changed and ownership changed. The Music left that Band. Today I am fortunate enough to have been reunited with that magic and the symphony that occurs in everything this company does. It is why it is one of the fastest growing companies in the direct sales industry. Clearly it has the ability to totally change lives and while doing that remove all limitations on what one person is capable of. I believe it will be one of the few companies in history to have many multiple 7 figure income earners.

So as you read this remember if you begin to recognize the vibrations sent and felt, you will know for sure whether it is Lies or Leadership. Here at Avant we are a leadership factory that brings harmony back into your soul with a product called Elevate. Come see and enjoy for yourself. You are the only one standing in the way of you becoming a leader in all aspects of your life. Why not live the life of your dreams???