Posts Tagged ‘Law of Attraction’

FEAR of Criticism

Wednesday, February 22nd, 2012
MINDSET  MERCHANTS   DAILY  CALL
Today’s Topic :

FEAR of Criticism

Ever really notice that the people around you that offer the most Criticism, offer it free of charge????…. So about 18 months ago I am in the midst of all of this self discovery and really becoming aware of what causes what in my live and or business, and I noticed something that struck Me sort of like a 2 x 4 piece of wood to the back of the head. The people around me offering the most criticism had 2 common traits : 1) They had little or no SUCCESSFUL experiences down the path of Criticism they were free to shell out… and 2) Those folks offering the Criticism were decidedly unhappy in most everything they do. They complained frequently and always had stories of things not at all going the way that things “should have”.

As I often do, I took out a legal pad one week and began to list the names of the people that were knee deep in criticizing anything or any way that I might be doing something and making decisions. I then took a step back and I reviewed my perception of these peoples lives. On this list were family members close to me, friends, acquaintances, as well as business associates and potential new customers for any of my businesses or activities. In those notes lay the answers to any thought I ever had about worrying about what other people think.

Criticism, is just noise from some jackass that would rather comment to you than supply a better solution with you. I went and took this a few steps further but only did this for 1 week… I began looking at these people who criticize and noticed that they spend countless amounts of time talking about People, not about any good or great things people have accomplished but they actually had a list of people that they habitually talk about as being wrong. From Politics and Government right down to their neighbor or business associate.
This gave me a recognizable pattern in people. The Criticizers are not in action, they are commenting on everyone else’s actions, because they live in FEAR of their OWN ACTIONS. This gave me the strength and clarity to move on from those criticizers and stick to MY LIFE PLAN. So today we’ll look at some of these people and experiences and I will give you the identifiers that will make these points clear.
Your exercise for the day is to sit back and think for a few moments before our call. Think about those people that criticize or ridicule you for being on whatever path you desire….. What are they accomplishing or have they accomplished??? This was a big chunk of my personal mental freedom regained. All those advise givers had seen enough of their own Colon that that was all they saw….. No wonder their criticism and advise was Sh_t, they only saw colon….
I will show you precisely how I did this and some of the stories to go along with it. It is imperative that you develop your own perceptions around these personality types for they are Dream Stealers. Although not a crime punishable by death, it should be……
See you on the call.

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The Top 6 or 7 Fears are :
1) The Fear of Poverty
* FEAR  OF  SUCCESS
2) The Fear of Criticism
3) The Fear of Ill Health
4) The Fear of Loss of Love or Being Loved
5) The Fear of Old Age
6) The Fear of Death

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FEAR of FAILURE / FEAR of SUCCESS

Tuesday, February 21st, 2012
MINDSET  MERCHANTS   DAILY  CALL
Today’s Topic :

Steps to Overcome & Eliminate

FEAR  OF  SUCCESS / FEAR OF FAILURE
Yesterday we dove head first into FEAR : False Evidence Appearing Real. Based on feedback and emails I changed our course to spend 2 days in first the Fear of Success, the next day in Fear of Failure. Yesterday we established that the following questions – you can ask yourself to see if you are indeed :”Afraid of Success and or Failure” in something. They were :

1) Do you feel guilty about your own success, especially when a friend tells you things are not going so well??
(This identifies that you have a FALSE BELEIFE that for one to succeed someone else has to fail… This is NOT True – We’ll review and clarify this on the call today).

2) Do you HIDE stories of Good Fortune, for fear that someone might envy you?
(This is a sign that you weight other people’s judgement over your own self judgement…. Observe carefully the people around you that are envious….. Notice how much time they spend talking about people instead of using that time to better themselves or their situation)

3) Do you have trouble saying : “NO” to people?

4) Do you find – BUZZZZY WORK to do in front of producing or money making activities?
(Today I will go through some real life – LIFE & DEATH situations whereby you must make better decisions and why. The parallel to exactly what must take place in decision making and action steps in your business)

5) Do you believe that most people who lookout for themselves FIRST, are selfish?
(We’ll look into and discuss this at length. Think for a moment, those who are in their top condition, Emotionally, Physically and Financially – can’t they assist or help more people than the Broke Sickly Guy????)

6) Do you feel that when you ask others for assistance or HELP that you are a burden or a bother?
(We’ll discuss this further and give examples of why this is a totally non- productive line of thinking)
Nearly everyone has some degree of Fear of Success and Fear of Failure.
It will be in how you control your thoughts and your vibration around that (Your Perceptions) that will allow you to turn your fears and anxieties into something far more productive.

So here are some questions you can ask yourself and think about that will adjust your perspective :

#1) How does this Fear (Whatever Your Fear Is) hold me back or stop me?
#2) How does this fear protect me or help me?
#3) MOST IMPORTANT : What is MY PAYOFF, what do I gain, if I Eliminate this FEAR NOW?
(Really think about and use this last self-question).
Mindset Behind All This :

You must place yourself in a state of Thanks and Gratitude for whatever it is you have in your life today. You must keep in mind we are all part of a MUCH BIGGER picture. Take a few steps back and utilize the tools I have laid out here that I use anytime something brings on that uneasy feeling of LACK or FEAR. Always look for evidence that supports your perceptions or what you want your future perceptions to be about whatever matter is bringing on that fear based situation.
We’ll get into precisely how I use this info situationally today as we finish up Fear of Success and Fear of Failure. Then we’ll iron out and give you additional tools to cover the rest of the fears on this list and overcome them.

 

Those Fears are :
1) The Fear of Poverty
* FEAR  OF  SUCCESS
2) The Fear of Criticism
3) The Fear of Ill Health
4) The Fear of Loss of Love or Being Loved
5) The Fear of Old Age
6) The Fear of Death

 

Remember :
THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DREAM AND REALITY IS : F.E.A.R.

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Time to Eliminate the last Hurdle – F.E.A.R.

Monday, February 20th, 2012

MINDSET MERCHANTS DAILY CALL

Today’s Topic : Time to Eliminate the last Hurdle – F.E.A.R. I touched on this last week.

FEAR or False evidence Appearing Real, is the number one reason why people do not take action. The saddest part of fear is that it is a HUMAN created emotion…… Every FEAR we have, we had to take our perspective and believe that that perspective is THE ONLY perspective. Most of the time we take action to make our FEARS real with the Law of Attraction…. So this subject deserves the ENTIRE week. We’ll dive into each possible fear as labeled below in the 6 Fears List. But…. Today we’ll something a little special. Today we’ll dive into a specific request not only directly from last weeks calls but in email form from 29 of you, you all wanted to know how I got past the FEAR or ANXIETY of Success or that sometimes comes with Success.

 

Those Fears are :

1) The Fear of Poverty * FEAR OF SUCCESS

2) The Fear of Criticism

3) The Fear of Ill Health

4) The Fear of Loss of Love or Being Loved

5) The Fear of Old Age

6) The Fear of Death

 

Know one thing for certain, FEAR, Like anger, hate, and envy, are vibration destroying emotions. They can bring down a company, a team, even a family. So today we’ll work on that side FEAR, Fear of Success, as we move forward we’ll not only define and destroy the fears listed below but we will also give you tools in each call that will give you the ability to fight with and deal with any FEARS that you fool yourself into believing “ON Demand”. See you on the call.

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Are People FEELING Your Vibe??

Friday, February 17th, 2012

MINDSET MERCHANTS DAILY CALL

Today’s Topic : What Have You Implemented in Controlling what others FEEL about you and what you are saying. We have covered a Great Deal over the past week. Engaging a topic like RESISTANCE to ALLOWING The Law of Attraction for some just might have seemed nearly preposterous. How could we be doing everything right and yet STILL not have the Law of Attraction in ACTION in our lives. The answer as to why WAS —– RESISTANCE. That same horrible feeling like when you are a passenger in a car and the person driving is not stopping with enough distance from the care in front of you…. That same strong, negative, feeling you get when trying to hit that imaginary brake pedal on the passenger side of the care is RESISTANCE…. That’s the feeling you get when something does not go as you would like or want it to. Controlling that feeling or VIBE and not having the other person or other people feel your strong desire to hit that brake is precisely what many of us do (Metaphorically Speaking) with the Law of Attraction… So today we’ll open up with examples then – lets all share experiences based on implementing things that we have shared and learned this week. It will show all those out there that are ALMOST getting it how to get it and really get The Law of Attraction in action in their lives. See you on the call.

 

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Vibrational Goal Setting

Friday, January 27th, 2012
MINDSET  MERCHANTS   DAILY  CALL
Our Call Today :

Today’s Topic : “VIBRATIONAL  GOAL  SETTING” Over the past week many new people have joined us. I am grateful for that!!! In communicating with those folks new to this call there have been a great many questions about Goal Setting.

Many people have asked “How To” questions on Goal Setting. A number of people that have been hanging around with the Mindset Merchant crowd have also asked questions concerning details as to just how I do it.

Today we’ll discuss precisely how I do write Goals out and how I play a little daily game of GOALS to GRATITUDE JOURNAL. The repeated play at this game sharpens your skills on focusing what you do want and creating a vibration that is in harmony with achieving more goals faster each time you accomplish somehting. Its The Law of Attraction in Action – AGAIN!!!
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Keeping & Protecting Your Positive VIBE

Friday, January 20th, 2012
MINDSET  MERCHANTS   DAILY  CALL

SPECIAL  ANNOUNCEMENT on TODAY’S  CALL at 11:04 am EST - Will Change Everything

Today’s Topic : Keeping & Protecting Your Positive VIBE : We spent time this week Learning exactly how a combination of your Vibe and Your Words, when they are “Congruent” or “In Integrity” with each other, create The Powerful Communicator in YOU.

So the Number 1 Question I received back from all of you was in this context…. David, you always seem to be positive but you have it easy because things always appear to be going your way. How do you get things to be going your way? Along with the Follow Up : When things go wrong, how do you bring yourself back to that Positive Powerful Vibe?

Well you cannot FORCE yourself to feel something you do not feel. You must relax in knowing that thing are the way they are for at some point in your past you created them. First with YOUR THOUGHTS, you focused thinking time effort and energy in a direction…Then after that practice of focusing those thoughts for a period of time, you did in fact begin to speak those words about that “Stuff” in a particular way. This works in all areas of your life. This cocktail of thoughts and words becomes a sea saw back and forth as to what comes first. Over a period of time it begins to create a ——– Belief. The belief you have IS your Vibe or Vibration… So as your words and thoughts flow – therein lies your solutions as to how you can alter your vibe and thus alter how the Law of Attraction works for you.

IN today’s call we will review this and most importantly SHOW you how this vibe runs the Law of Attraction. We’ll show you precisely why the same stuff keeps showing up in your life and most importantly what you can do to change this. We’ll roll this into DESERVABILITY, so that by the end of today’s call you will all have the tools necessary to change that VIBE to one that with confidence knows and creates exactly what it Deserves.

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Power vs. Force : With The Law of Attraction

Tuesday, January 17th, 2012
MINDSET  MERCHANTS   DAILY  CALL

Today’s Topic : Power vs. Force….. Today we’ll begin the journey down the path of instead of pressuring people into what you want them to do (FORCE), using the Law of Attraction, that will allow them to see your Natural Power.
Many people, when they become self employed are doing just that. Entering a world where whether they KNOW IT or NOT they must become a different person. They must become AWARE of two very important factors :

1) Their Vibration : The feelings that they are pushing out there that create feelings in others.

2) Their Integrity : Not just in the Sense of the real world definition of Integrity, but the feeling they are pushing out there with what they are saying or doing. Without alignment of those two things they can only force and have NO POWER.

The largest lesson in life I ever received was working with someone – whose words were the utmost of integrity, however, his VIBE, or the feelings he created were 100% Diametrically Opposed to his words. Therefor – no matter how hard we worked toward the stated excellent goal…. The situation was and still is powerless.

So today we’ll discuss this Power vs. Force thing. You will understand how I learned through that experience to bring 100% Integrity into my life and more importantly the dynamic reason WHY without forcing anyone I can build Great Teams that WANT to work together and make things happen.

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