Posts Tagged ‘Mental Freedom’

Define Your Dreams – Step 1 in Making it Happen

Monday, October 4th, 2010

I coach and teach many people to expand their awareness with the use of a product Elevate. The reason I use Elevate is that it is a comprehensive program designed to lift them out of their “IF ONLY” thinking into one of more possibilities. It is essential for people to become aware of this fact for if life is constantly based on “If Onlys” then how could we ever grow or expand.

The first step in getting out of your own way is to eliminate the following thoughts and statements from your vocabulary :

1) When I have _______________, I will be happy.

2) When I fix _______________, I will be happy.

3) I need _______________, then I will be happy.

We must start in a place of being grateful for what we have by literally making a list, an inventory of all that is already in our lives. Once the list is compiled it is essential that we clearly look at our perspective of each and every thing. We must change our perspective of each and every thing in our lives so that we are in appreciation of them or it. One example would be a dog. Dogs can be a kind loving addition to a family, bonding them together with memories and fun. When cared for, a dog gives its love of the family unconditionally. That is one perspective. Another perspective is one of a tiresome responsibility to have the dog. That perspective is full of “work and aggravation”. Cleaning, feeding, taking care of the animal none of which is empowering or feels good or even has one ounce of Gratitude in it.

Once we have a great gratitude filled perspective we can, from there, begin to dream up what we would be grateful for if those dreams became part of our experience. It is essential that we set the stage in a feeling of future gratitude; for that energy is the energy that will drive us to do everything we will be required to achieve the desired goals. This magical way of allowing thoughts to expand in the future gratitude allows us to see how we will feel in the future. Magically our own efforts, language and motivation push us in the direction of making things happen so that we achieve our dreams.

If you are interested in learning more – contact me – David Varrone at : 954-349-7386.

The Echo of Life – It’s Really Your Subconscious

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

Recently I had the Opportunity to be in a large empty stadium and one of my children yelled out – and of course it echoed back. As always when you hear an echo it is indeed amusing. A re-sounding of a statement made out to the world comes right back at you. The larger the area, chamber, or “stadium” you are in, the longer the phrase is that repeats back to you without it repeating over itself. Ever wonder why echo’s exists? Well I believe they exists for one of those little BIG lessons in life.

Your daily living and thoughts are your own personal echo chamber. You see what you tell your self in thoughts and in out loud verbalization’s echo back. Since your mind is truly infinite in its capacities, the statements we make to ourselves can be volumes long and ALL of them do indeed “echo”. The more we concentrate on a thought the more we hear that thought. The more we hear that thought and verbalization of it especially, the more it becomes a “mantra”. The more it becomes a “Mantra” the more it becomes who we are.

So it is very important to allow thoughts that move us in the direction of our goals and dreams, of who we wish to be. Then the “ECHO” of life works for us instead of against us. If we choose thoughts in the knowing of what we want and verbalize them – then and only then are we using the “Law of Attraction” to its fullest power. Focused thoughts on Positive Goal Motivated Activities create space in our minds to actually then go and do, and carry out actions that will cause all that we are wishing for to come into our lives.

So today, pretend your thoughts and vocal statements were all screamed out loud in an large stadium. Listen for that Echo back and notice your feeling surrounding the echo back. Notice and become AWARE that this echo is actually what your subconscious is hearing. KNOW that your subconscious wastes no time in creating actions that will fulfill what it is hearing as your desires.

So as you begin becoming aware of this remember – the echo is what the subconscious hears, therefor a great deal of caution must be used in what is screamed out there…. Outlined below I will give you a couple of good examples and a couple of funny and not so good examples :

GOOD

1. I am loosing weight and getting healthier and healthier each day

- The subconscious mind will support you and guild you to more physical activities and a healthier eating style.

2. I am really accomplishing a great deal in my work. Sales are actually many times greater than my goals were. My income is skyrocketing.

- The subconscious mind will then allow excitement to come into play and motivation to do more and achieve more will occur. This will actually create an environment that will allow you to do just what you allowed to echo.

3. I am an excellent cook and create healthful and nutritional meals.

- This will actually create a pattern of thoughts and actions that will allow you to seek out healthful foods and recipies and create them.

NOT-SO-GOOD

1. I am feeling Fat and Out of Shape.

- This will create a feeling of not being able to become healthy. Your subconscious will assist you in giving up on being healthy. You will eat the wrong things and never work towards exercise or eating healthy.

2. I will never hit my Income Goals – I will never be that number one Sales / Customer Service / Engineer….

- This will allow your subconscious mind to “GIVE UP”. It will allow your subconscious mind to create an environment where you don’t go the extra mile to make things happen. You “WILL NEVER” so Why Bother.

So here you have a micro lesson in “The Law of Attraction”. Your mind is the most powerful creative tool you have. Controlling the focus of thought allows you to harness it’s power. The thoughts you choose to focus on with emotion creates who you will be and how you will behave. Controlling this is so very important. What I do for a living is teach precisely how to do that. Avant, a company I am a Founding Participant in, is all about AWARENESS. We teach you how to do all of this so you not only control the Echo of Life, you become the master and creator of your life instead of living it by chance and as a victim.

I am an experienced life-coach that ties all of this into a format to maximize results in your life or business. I offer one on one consultations so that you get results in your life. If you are in business or would like to be, then reach out and contact : David Varrone at 954-349-7386. My door is always open to assist people in these transformations. I have watched and assisted many who clean up the Echo’s and that has been phenomenal. People get to achieve what they truly desire and it happens FAST. I look forward to being of service.

Clarity of Visualizations Create a Path to Real Life Results

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

When I think about visualization, I think of it as a tool.   Often people do not realize just how incredibly powerful they are and how their visualizations,  GOOD or BAD, actually pave a way for that mental picture to become a reality.  We, as human beings, are creative creators.

Think about it from an architect’s perspective.  He or she dreams of a building or home - visualizes it.  He then begins to sketch out the design. Then takes his or her idea to whomever they were providing this service for, and based on clarity and enthusiasm he or she then begins to enroll that person, or group of people, in their vision.  Once this vision is accepted, the clients then begin to push the resources into his flow of vision and before too long a building or home is  built.

So how does this relate to you and I?  It’s actually quite simple.  As we begin to think and dream, mental pictures are created.  The clearer and more defined the mental picture the more passion we will begin to develop in that direction. When we begin to get really passionate, we begin to share those dreams and visualizations; we begin to enroll people all around us in the possibility of that vision becoming true.

There is evidence all around us of this. The telephone on your desk at one point was a vision in Alexander Graham Bell’s mind.  The home you live in was a thought – a Vision – in someones mind.  The car you drive also started as a vision.  We, as human beings were created with this ability.  It works on small and large scales.

At Avant we teach people precisely how to sharpen this skill so that you can have the life you really want – by design. Check out www.weareavant.com .  Begin to see our visualization.  Begin to see what we can do for you.