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Are Your Reacting or RESPONDING? The “Law of Attraction” at play…

Tuesday, October 19th, 2010

Here is something most people do not consider; are your reacting or are you responding? One requires no thoughts, no on purpose selection of behavior, the other requires you to think. You must think about your behavior. You must make a choice as to how you allow whatever it is that is occurring to effect you. Why, because it is this constant course of behavior that will determine your attitude all day long. When in reaction mode your emotions run the show which can be very very chaotic. When in response you allow your thoughts to participate in the outcome of a situation. When your thoughts are involved you can make choices to change the direction of the situation. When only your emotions are involved – like attracts like – so if you fly on emotion it tends to increase or become more and more of what you are reacting to. Remember, emotionally you are transmitting a vibration, that vibration will attract more and more of the same vibration – Good or Bad.

SO  LETS  GIVE  SOME  EXAMPLES  FOR  CLARITY  :

SITUATION : Lets set the table for this. Say the situation at hand is that you are driving down the road in your car. Someone comes up from behind you and begins tailgating you and you are on a fairly narrow, curvy road. Upon first notice you feel your vibration of aggravation creeping up on you. You begin to feel a twinge of anger. Your emotions begin to take hold….. This situation continues to expand as this individual continues to creep closer and closer to the back of your car. A few more moments pass by and then this individual moves his or her car around you and in the process passes you (Because you are beginning to react in anger you accelerate to make his action of passing that much more challenging). In doing so they cut so close to the front corner of your car that you must hit the brakes and swerve to avoid the two cars colliding.

REACTION : So now as your temper flares, you decide (And it is a decision) to pursue this lunatic. You are going to “show them” or give them piece of your mind. You begin to race after them. Letting go all sense of reality in driving angry and without caution. You chase the individual down and as your temper continues to flare, you engauge in the next non-productive reaction. A Confrontation. In this confrontation you end up in a physical or at the very least a mental and verbal battle that proceeds to waste even more of your time……. I need not go further as this situation could get worse and worse but you get the picture. Your reaction in anger takes you on a non productive path and even more unsettling time wasting chaos.  As a result of all of this you end up 10 minutes late to an appointment. Then the person you are meeting with becomes annoyed at you for your vibration is of stress and anger. The purpose of the meeting goes unfulfilled for they don’t even wish to be around you…. See where I am going here?

RESPOND : Now lets assume the same thing happens to you and instead of reacting you decide to slow down and allow that tailgater to pass you buy. A few miles up the road you end up next to the tailgater and a light and you come to find that this person has a pregnant passenger in the the car with him – about to give birth. The person is not angry or hostile – remember your anger caused their anger in the REACTION….. This person is scared to death. You immediately render assistance and call for help. At the same time you call ahead to your appointment and let them know you will be late and why. As you describe with compassion what is going on and what you are doing your appointment feels that vibration and also begins to feel that compassion. Their vibration matches yours. Ultimately when you do meet up with your appointment you have a phenomenal meeting and accomplish exactly what you set out to do.

Now both these situations have a similar start and a dramatically different outcome. All because you chose to RESPOND instead of REACT.  In studying human behavior, I have found this process of responding over – overreacting to be one of the largest leaps people can make in creating the life they really desire. It is an absolute Success Principle. The person that thinks and responds is in control of their future and the person that reacts has no control over anything.

Imagine if you slowed down and viewed every situation you encounter with the compassion and thought of more possibilities than just your emotional response….. Think about how many situations throughout your life that could have had a DRAMATICALLY DIFFERENT outcome if you chose to approach things from a different angle. Always remember the “Law of Attraction”, like it or not, it is always at work. The moment you make this choice to live life more on purpose and with thought and focus on what you do want instead of an emotional reaction in trying to change what is going on is the moment life becomes AWESOME. It becomes awesome for you have become on purpose and no longer are your pure emotions recreating what you don’t want.

Remember that the “Law of Attraction” will recreate and re-attract exactly what your EMOTIONS and THOUGHTS are focused upon. So today in as many situations as you can, make a choice. Make a choice to RESPOND and not REACT and I believe you will see some tremendous changes in life turning out just the way you wanted it to in the first place. Make sure you use your emotional charges for the great things around you and for the right things with the people you love and watch what happens.

Elevate

The principles discussed here are in a phenomenal life changing product : “Elevate”. Elevate is the core of the teachings involved in a business designed to change not only lives but peoples personal finances. In doing so we create wealth for people in a home based business – Avant. The biggest gift in this business is not the money but the fact that we make fortunes not for the sale but for the life changes when people begin to REACT instead of RESPOND….

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The Law of Attraction – Vibrational Match

Monday, September 27th, 2010

As a founding member of one of the most extraordinary companies in the world – Avant (TM), I am constantly asked about “The Law of Attraction”. Constantly questioned on why I am able to create large sums of Income and large streams of success. Why is it so very easy for me and how come I can constantly duplicate the process over and over again?? The answer lies in your ability to create a Vibrational Match with whatever you desire in your life.

Often times we refer to this method of creating as “Be Do Have”. Be as the successful are “being”; Do as the successful are “doing”; And then you will have what the successful are “having”…..NOT SO FAST…. There is indeed a missing piece of this puzzle. In fact, unless you have the “Vibrational Match”, you could Be, Do and Attempt at Having, and it will just never manifest. So what we will outline today will give you the recipe not for “Be, Do, Have” but for achieving the Vibrational Match, that when practiced will remove all the mystery as to why your goals may or may not be manifesting. We will then clarify what you must physically do and think to bring Vibrational Harmony into play so the Law of Attraction works in your life – TODAY!!!

Since everything is “Vibrational” or works based on the feeling surrounding all of the situations we get into, we must become aware of this. Not only must we become aware of this, but must understand that the feeling, or vibrations, must be in total harmony with who you wish to be or what you strongly desire. If we have a desire or goal and the feeling surrounding that dream or desire is not in harmony then you are actually supplying resistance to exactly what you want.

You must ask yourself  “what will it FEEL like to be there or to have that certain thing?”  To use all of the power available to you when you ask yourself this question you MUST feel the wonder of all of the experience of already having it or being there.  If you view yourself as NEEDING it, you are out of vibrational harmony.  If you find yourself feeling that you might be there or might be there soon, you are not in vibrational harmony.  If you are sitting there and justifying WHY you must have it or WHY you are entitled to it, you are supplying resistance to it.  If you are desiring something to compensate for something else, you are not there and you are using The Law of Attraction against you.  However, if your feelings are in total GRATITUDE & APPRECIATION of already having it, already loving the experience of appreciating it, then YOU ARE THERE. When your expectations are accompanied by a vibration of knowing it is coming and this causes a tingle in your belly in its arrival, YOU ARE THERE. At that very moment that tingle IS “The Law of Attraction” in action.

Here is another exercise to check your vibration; and this will assist you in building a business towards real life results and wealth.

How do you REALLY REALLY FEEL about Rich People? If your thinking about Rich People is that, “well I’ll be different when I am rich”.  If there is a feeling of the “Rich” being a separate entity  or separate from you, then you are using the Law of Attraction against yourself.  Notice the feeling surrounding “those rich people” as you separate yourself from them….. The rich are NOT separate.  When you do this, this is what’s known as Vibrational Discord or Resistance. Removing and reshaping your thinking surrounding this allows you to dramatically increase the vibration in harmony with your desired experience.

So the first step in this recipe is to become aware.  Take ownership of the fact that you have made the choice to feel the way you do.  You are the one who separated yourself from the rich by your chosen feelings.  Once you allow yourself to be untied with them and experience things from the perspective of acceptance and belonging, and explore those feelings, you then will be using The Law of Attraction and Vibrationally Matching your strongest desires.  I encourage you to do so and join those people doing this who are experiencing life to its fullest.

Try this over the next few days and then come back here and comment on your results.  I will add a post later this week that will build upon this and allow you to take this further.  There will be more instructions on exercises that you can do to increase the speed at which you manifest things in your life. Over the next 10 Blog Entries, you will learn the methods I use to have the Law of Attraction work in every area and aspect of my life. Tune in and learn and you will receive an enormous gift.

In Gratitude – David Varrone.

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Goals – Your On Purpose Road to Success

Monday, September 20th, 2010

Do all of you clearly understand the importance of GOALS? Do you understand why it is the backbone of success for almost anything we wish to do not only in a Home Based Business, but in life? You see, most people live life like it is a Random Circumstance. These people live life in a way where their environment creates situations that they are reacting to every day. There is no order, no direction, no sense of purpose, ad thus they end up just living life from situation to situation.

Goals begin to pull your life’s activities into an On Purpose direction. The more on purpose the your life is the more you not only accomplish but the more it becomes exactly what you want instead of merely just a reaction to circumstances. Think about the minor things you may already be applying “goals” to. Take for instance a grocery list. When you go to the grocery store with a list you get everything on it and have a specific set of needs covered. Taking that one step further, this will in turn plan your meals at home for the next few days. Which will in turn direct the specific time for preparation. So that list of goals, no matter how trivial, has a very orderly on purpose effect.

Now lets take a step back and look at your work or business. If you have a very detailed and specific set of defined goals, and a job or business that is the vehicle for getting there, think for a moment……. if you knew the activities you were performing on a daily basis had the PURPOSE of getting you exactly where you designed you wanted to be…… How productive could you be? How much better a job would you do? Wouldn’t you take things far more seriously if you knew precisley where you were heading? Then wouldn’t you channel all of your physical and mental energy in the direction of your work and goals so you get there?? The rewards when you have that much motivation and focus are HUGE!

So today, sit back and think about things. Do you have clear goals? Do you have a vehicle to achieve them, a business or a job? Really think about it and remember, as you begin to plant yourself into a defined plan, activities, thoughts, actions and passion begin to flow into your life. So set some goals now. Road map things for the next 3 months, then 6, months, then 1 year, then 3 years, and create a long term plan so your life has a very defined purpose.

GOAL SETTING

I encourage you to pick up a pen and a piece of paper and jot down the goals you want to reach. Look at each goal and evaluate it. Make any changes necessary to ensure it meets the criteria for SMART goals:

  • S = Specific
  • M = Measurable
  • A = Attainable
  • R = Realistic
  • T = Timely

Specific

Goals should be straightforward and emphasize what you want to happen. Specifics help us to focus our efforts and clearly define what we are going to do.

Specific is the What, Why, and How of the SMART model.

  • WHAT are you going to do? Use action words such as direct, organize, coordinate, lead, develop, plan, build etc.
  • WHY is this important to do at this time? What do you want to ultimately accomplish?
  • HOW are you going to do it? (By…)

Ensure the goals you set is very specific, clear and easy. Instead of setting a goal to lose weight or be healthier, set a specific goal to lose 2 in. off your waistline or to walk 5 miles at an aerobically challenging pace.

Measurable

If you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it. In the broadest sense, the whole goal statement is a measure for the project; if the goal is accomplished, the is a success. However, there are usually several short-term or small measurements that can be built into the goal.

Choose a goal with measurable progress, so you can see the change occur. How will you see when you reach your goal? Be specific! “I want to read 3 novels of 300 pages before the end of the year” shows the specific target to be measured. “I want to be a good reader” is not as measurable.

Establish concrete criteria for measuring progress toward the attainment of each goal you set. When you measure your progress, you stay on track, reach your target dates, and experience the exhilaration of achievement that spurs you on to continued effort required to reach your goals.

Attainable

When you identify goals that are most important to you, you begin to figure out ways you can make them come true. You develop that attitudes, abilities, skills, and financial capacity to reach them. You begin seeing previously overlooked opportunities to bring yourself closer to the achievement of your goals.

Goals you set which are too far out of your reach, you probably won’t commit to doing. Although you may start with the best of intentions, the knowledge that it’s too much for you means your subconscious will keep reminding you of this fact and will stop you from even giving it your best.

A goal needs to stretch you slightly so you feel you can do it and it will need a real commitment from you. For instance, if you aim to lose 20lbs in one week, we all know that isn’t achievable. But setting a goal to loose 1lb and when you’ve achieved that, aiming to lose a further 1lb, will keep it achievable for you.

The feeling of success which this brings helps you to remain motivated.

Realistic

This is not a synonym for “easy.” Realistic, in this case, means “do-able.” It means that the learning curve is not a vertical slope; that the skills needed to do the work are available; that the project fits with the overall strategy and goals of the organization. A realistic project may push the skills and knowledge of the people working on it but it shouldn’t break them.

Devise a plan or a way of getting there which makes the goal realistic. The goal needs to be realistic for you and where you are at the moment. A goal of never again eating sweets, cakes, cookies and chocolate may not be realistic for someone who really enjoys these foods.

For instance, it may be more realistic to set a goal of eating a piece of fruit each day instead of one sweet item. You can then choose to work towards reducing the amount of sweet products gradually as this feels realistic for you.

Be sure to set goals that you can attain with some effort! Too difficult and you set the stage for failure, but too low sends the message that you aren’t very capable. Set the bar high enough for a satisfying achievement!

Timely

Set a timeframe for the goal: for next week, in three months, by next year. Putting an end point on your goal gives you a clear target to work towards.

If you don’t set a time, the commitment is too vague. It tends not to happen because you feel you can start at any time. Without a time limit, there’s no urgency to start taking action now.

Time must be measurable, attainable and realistic.

Everyone will benefit from goals and objectives if they are SMART. SMART, is the instrument to apply in setting your goals and objectives.

After you set these goals today understand that this is one technique I use to assist people in building the motivation they require to create an incredible business from home. Once they know where they are going I have the tools to take them there, rapidly. Make it happen and feel free to be in touch with David Varrone – call me directly at 954-349-7386.

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The Echo of Life – It’s Really Your Subconscious

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

Recently I had the Opportunity to be in a large empty stadium and one of my children yelled out – and of course it echoed back. As always when you hear an echo it is indeed amusing. A re-sounding of a statement made out to the world comes right back at you. The larger the area, chamber, or “stadium” you are in, the longer the phrase is that repeats back to you without it repeating over itself. Ever wonder why echo’s exists? Well I believe they exists for one of those little BIG lessons in life.

Your daily living and thoughts are your own personal echo chamber. You see what you tell your self in thoughts and in out loud verbalization’s echo back. Since your mind is truly infinite in its capacities, the statements we make to ourselves can be volumes long and ALL of them do indeed “echo”. The more we concentrate on a thought the more we hear that thought. The more we hear that thought and verbalization of it especially, the more it becomes a “mantra”. The more it becomes a “Mantra” the more it becomes who we are.

So it is very important to allow thoughts that move us in the direction of our goals and dreams, of who we wish to be. Then the “ECHO” of life works for us instead of against us. If we choose thoughts in the knowing of what we want and verbalize them – then and only then are we using the “Law of Attraction” to its fullest power. Focused thoughts on Positive Goal Motivated Activities create space in our minds to actually then go and do, and carry out actions that will cause all that we are wishing for to come into our lives.

So today, pretend your thoughts and vocal statements were all screamed out loud in an large stadium. Listen for that Echo back and notice your feeling surrounding the echo back. Notice and become AWARE that this echo is actually what your subconscious is hearing. KNOW that your subconscious wastes no time in creating actions that will fulfill what it is hearing as your desires.

So as you begin becoming aware of this remember – the echo is what the subconscious hears, therefor a great deal of caution must be used in what is screamed out there…. Outlined below I will give you a couple of good examples and a couple of funny and not so good examples :

GOOD

1. I am loosing weight and getting healthier and healthier each day

- The subconscious mind will support you and guild you to more physical activities and a healthier eating style.

2. I am really accomplishing a great deal in my work. Sales are actually many times greater than my goals were. My income is skyrocketing.

- The subconscious mind will then allow excitement to come into play and motivation to do more and achieve more will occur. This will actually create an environment that will allow you to do just what you allowed to echo.

3. I am an excellent cook and create healthful and nutritional meals.

- This will actually create a pattern of thoughts and actions that will allow you to seek out healthful foods and recipies and create them.

NOT-SO-GOOD

1. I am feeling Fat and Out of Shape.

- This will create a feeling of not being able to become healthy. Your subconscious will assist you in giving up on being healthy. You will eat the wrong things and never work towards exercise or eating healthy.

2. I will never hit my Income Goals – I will never be that number one Sales / Customer Service / Engineer….

- This will allow your subconscious mind to “GIVE UP”. It will allow your subconscious mind to create an environment where you don’t go the extra mile to make things happen. You “WILL NEVER” so Why Bother.

So here you have a micro lesson in “The Law of Attraction”. Your mind is the most powerful creative tool you have. Controlling the focus of thought allows you to harness it’s power. The thoughts you choose to focus on with emotion creates who you will be and how you will behave. Controlling this is so very important. What I do for a living is teach precisely how to do that. Avant, a company I am a Founding Participant in, is all about AWARENESS. We teach you how to do all of this so you not only control the Echo of Life, you become the master and creator of your life instead of living it by chance and as a victim.

I am an experienced life-coach that ties all of this into a format to maximize results in your life or business. I offer one on one consultations so that you get results in your life. If you are in business or would like to be, then reach out and contact : David Varrone at 954-349-7386. My door is always open to assist people in these transformations. I have watched and assisted many who clean up the Echo’s and that has been phenomenal. People get to achieve what they truly desire and it happens FAST. I look forward to being of service.

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Beleif or Knowing – What’s the Difference?

Monday, August 30th, 2010

To have “belief” in something means that you have confidence in something without necessarily having concrete evidence that it is. To “know” or to be “knowing” of something means that you not only believe that something is, but you have evidence to support that belief is indeed for real. So where does that come into play in the world of a Home Based Business or in Personal Development? Well, simply put, often before we ever know we must fly on belief that something will occur, that a business can indeed be established and make a profit.

So the question is, how do we do that? How do we develop a belief in something so that it warrants our efforts behind it? Nearly every single day in the last 6 years of being in a Home Based Business I am asked that very question, “David – it all sounds good but how do we know it is indeed possible”?  My answer is very simple, spend some time and listen to exactly what the successful are doing in a Home Based Business.

In my case it is simple.  I chose a company with amazing products in the field of Personal Development for I knew that would allow me to create not only a vision of success, but it would assist me in creating exactly what I visualize in terms of success.  I chose Avant (TM); for its products allow each of us to explore the power of our own visualizations and all that is possible.  It also allows us to focus all energy, time and resources in a manner never seen before. Ultimately Avant also compensates each of its Home Based Business Owners in a manner that is absolutely NOT duplicated anywhere in world, in any business.  Once you understand their products and what they have to offer – all explained in a teleconference, you can listen to a recorded version at : 1-618-355-1590,  or you can listen to it live online at TELECONFERENCE – it almost becomes a “no-brainer” to get involved and share something that will effect and change the lives of every single person that touches the products or business.

Simply put, the products are like no other.  Never  before in the history of Personal Development has something been created that puts the power of YEARS or even a LIFETIME of study into a complete program that creates results the first day you touch it and then amplifies those effects exponentially over time.  When you couple that with a compensation plan that creates 6 figures part time, and a residual of over 6 figures for retirement, you have something that will completely take care of an individual both personally and financially.

I invite all that read this blog to tune in now 2-3 times per week.  In that you will find bits and pieces, lessons on parts of what you will receive major lessons on in Personal Development.  For those that wish to become involved as a Mentored Business Partner, the future holds some great things for you, and I look forward to assisting you.

As always, feel free to contact my home office at 954-349-7386.

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Clarity of Visualizations Create a Path to Real Life Results

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

When I think about visualization, I think of it as a tool.   Often people do not realize just how incredibly powerful they are and how their visualizations,  GOOD or BAD, actually pave a way for that mental picture to become a reality.  We, as human beings, are creative creators.

Think about it from an architect’s perspective.  He or she dreams of a building or home - visualizes it.  He then begins to sketch out the design. Then takes his or her idea to whomever they were providing this service for, and based on clarity and enthusiasm he or she then begins to enroll that person, or group of people, in their vision.  Once this vision is accepted, the clients then begin to push the resources into his flow of vision and before too long a building or home is  built.

So how does this relate to you and I?  It’s actually quite simple.  As we begin to think and dream, mental pictures are created.  The clearer and more defined the mental picture the more passion we will begin to develop in that direction. When we begin to get really passionate, we begin to share those dreams and visualizations; we begin to enroll people all around us in the possibility of that vision becoming true.

There is evidence all around us of this. The telephone on your desk at one point was a vision in Alexander Graham Bell’s mind.  The home you live in was a thought – a Vision – in someones mind.  The car you drive also started as a vision.  We, as human beings were created with this ability.  It works on small and large scales.

At Avant we teach people precisely how to sharpen this skill so that you can have the life you really want – by design. Check out www.weareavant.com .  Begin to see our visualization.  Begin to see what we can do for you.

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Hitting Reset – It Is Your Belly Button….

Monday, July 26th, 2010

So how are things going? Have you hit your goals recently? Sometimes we set admirable goals that are huge and attractive and get us super motivated only to find that, even though we did our best we did not hit them….. It is important in your own personal growth to understand that that is all “Part of The Deal“. At that very moment in time it is imperative to hit “RESET” . We have raised our children with the Reset Button being your Belly Button – push it laugh a little and reset your goals.

This lighthearted approach is dynamic in nature. It allows us to laugh off the feelings associated with not achieving a goal and places our mind and feelings in a space of joy and laughter again. From this space we can again become creative enough to set new goals and achieve them.

This “RESET” is something I actually teach in training calls at www.weareavant.com, a Personal Development and Awareness Company, that is a revolutionary Home Based Business. Many of the topics here in this blog are merely surface touches on things that are covered within Avant’s Business and Coaching. The business itself has begun to change many lives and I invite you for free to check things out and then get back to me. I am one of the Founders in the Company along with a dynamic group of very close friends. All of us have many years experience and training in personal development and being ultra-successful in a home based business. Now press that Belly Button, RESET LIFE, and make today a wonderful day.

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Resistance is Just Focusing on Nonsence

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

Good Morning to all those visiting and reading these micro lessons on personal development. Today I have a special share for as I build Home Based Businesses with others for a living , I can’t help but notice and focus on some interesting things as I become aware of them.

I became aware yesterday of how important it is to not get hung up on the ignorant comments of others. Sometimes people that are influential in your business or on your path allow their Ego to broadcast messages that ultimately, if you allow them to, create resistance. It is through awareness of the behavioural patterns of those individuals that they lose the power to have any effect on you. In fact, as you become aware, you can isolate their comments in your life as nonsence. When you accomplish this they cannot create resistance but actually begin to serve you in the elevation of your awareness and presence to the here and now.

So if you have someone who is a person whom you felt as important to your life  on on your path of growth, take only what serves you from their commentary or guidance. It is your focus of energy and thought that gives their guidance meaning. You get to choose the impact they have on your life.

So choose wisely on the focus of what people are saying around you as this is the first step in taking responsibility to a level where YOU have control and THEY DO NOT. Focus on the good that these individuals bring into your life not the crap that they ignorantly bring to the table. There is greatness in many of my mentors yet sometimes they choose to play EGO and then, well when ego controls the situation they bring crap. So choose not to focus on crap and then for sure you will notice resistance to what you are truely after falling by the wayside.

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