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Set Your Goals and Your Y

david — Wed, 16 May 2012 13:26:09 +0000

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Today’s Topic :

Set Your Goals and Your Y

It is time to sit down now and really begin to THINK. What are the things that YOU really want? What Things or Situations do you wish to create?? What is emotionally important to you?? The more important the goals are to you emotionally the more motivated and on purpose you will become.

Goals are a major force in motivation for all we do. So today we’ll review the entire goal setting process and how you can come about writing out that list of Goals in a “Goal Journal” that will keep you on track and on purpose. We will come up with a method of both writing the list AND creating a plan of action that does not punish for breaking of the deadlines but does keep you directed and achieving the desired objective sooner rather than later.

When we are complete, you will know to use this goal journal as that directional motivation and you will also learn about the game of Goals to Gratitude that we play each day. You are already playing this game to some degree, just mostly unaware. So we’ll make you aware of it AND show you where you already do it. We’ll tie it all together so you can play it out and write it down. NOTHING BOOSTS Confidence more than goals being achieved and that feeling of being grateful towards life for YOU DID IT, and achieved the GOAL!!

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The Vision of Your Goals

david — Mon, 14 May 2012 13:47:05 +0000

The Vision of Your Goals

Good Morning Mindset Members. We are about to embark on giving you Purpose. People who have a clear vision of what they truly desire : GOALS , approach life in a completely different manner. A goal gives your DAY purpose…. A Set of Goals with Vision give your LIFE Purpose. Remember how the Law of Attraction works what you give your focus of energy and attention to happens and repeats itself.

For many of us, the first time we sit down and thin of a goal or a set of goals the process is overwhelming. Take a few deep breaths and thing about a trip to a place you have never been before. Let’s say you are going to take a ride to an amazement park 200 miles away. Your goal would be to get there by noon on a Friday. If you notice how goals and The Law of Attraction come together. You will then be motivated to take steps to make this goal come true. You would more than likely develop a plan of action – to make this goal come true. More than likely you will get directions ; then you may prep the car filling it with Gas ; then you may prepare some food and drink in a cooler that would have you covered for the 3-4 hour drive.

Having a goal causes you to get into action to make it happen. The more you think of the goal with emotional ties, the more action you will take to make it happen.

So today we’ll begin to explore how to the techniques I use to begin to develop goals, both large and small. It is important that you Visualize everything you can about your goal. You literally must see, hear it, feel it, taste it, and smell it. The more emotional connections to your vision the more aggressive and action filled your plan will be to achieve your goal. The more action you take the quicker you can make the goals happen.

So I will story-ize and explain why goal setting went from being a challenge to being a breeze and you will be clear today on how to create the emotion packed dreams into an Amazing Vision. This Vision will inspire you to create the Goals that will comprise the road map that will create the life you desire.

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Changing Your Mind…..

david — Tue, 01 May 2012 14:19:54 +0000

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Changing Your Mind…..

Yesterday we reviewed behaviors and a way to change your behavior. We reviewed a simple process as outlined here now. YOU MUST do this as a WRITTEN EXERCISE — MUST :

1) Identify : Identify a behavior that you wish to change or modify.

2) Link this behavior to MASSIVE CONSEQUENSES, in the following two ways:

a) Write down 10, yes 10, specific costs or consequences of your behavior not

changing.

b) Write down 10, yes 10, reasons why you must change that behavior NOW.

3) Create and Write down a mental picture, a vision of yourself, employing the new behavior – One Paragraph.

4) Connect AT LEAST 10 Benefits of this new behavior and write those down.

It may seem a little crazy but this exercise above totally changed the way that I went about changing my behavior on issues I desired to change. It is still the method I use today to change and improve things. It takes you down a path of clarity and reason for change so the changes “stick” better and faster.

Yesterday I mentioned a topic, that while a real topic “Neuroplasticity”. I encourage you to look further into that as it is fascinating but I wish to not over-complicate where we are going with modeling. Neuroplasticity is the way a persons Brain can rewire itself after any kind of traumatic injury or stimulus from a persons environment. While some of this is indeed going on – to clarify will take us off the points I want to make and the road map I wish to give you for change.

So today we’ll expand upon ways you can find the appropriate model and adopt what the appropriate model is doing that is in alignment with where you want to go with things.

So for Today’s Call, I ask that you Ponder the question :

” WHAT DO I LOVE BUT I THINK I CAN’T HAVE??”

Then think about this : Do you pine for success but constantly think its a mooooooving target? Do you always feel that having what you really want is always out of your reach?… Think about these things for a moment.

Then I want you to notice your vibration surrounding these thoughts. Really FEEL your FEELINGS. Your about to realize the vibration of the state of your Mindset…

Now hold those feelings and thoughts and we will explore them. We’ll also take a ride on the little emotional roller coaster that I experienced and how I redesigned its path and took the roller coaster ride and turned that into a Smooth Rocket Ship Ride to where I wanted to go. I did this by finding the correct model, studying it or them,,,,,, then modeling EXACTLY WHAT THEY DID!!

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Mindset Merchants — Have a Vision and Take MASSIVE ACTION for YOU, INC.

david — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 13:25:24 +0000

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Mindset Merchants – Have a Vision and Take MASSIVE ACTION for YOU, INC.

We have come nearly 4 months now into information put together for the purpose of giving you complete control of your MINDSET.

MINDSET : The idea’s and attitudes with which an individual approaches a situation.

Your Mindset will either allow you to use all of the elements of today’s world in a manner that will allow you to accomplish extraordinary things OR Your Mindset will simply crush every dream, hope, and expectation you may have.

The single most powerful thing in the universe is not a Black Hole. It is the Mindset we allow to be created surrounding any one thing or situation. Becoming a THINKING, Planning, and non-drifting individual will allow you to create visions, dreams, and thoughts that give you BACK your ability to create your own Mindset. Your Thoughts will dictate what you say to yourself and ultimately your own behavior. Your Mindset will control the thoughts and actions you create.

Our goals are to create steps where by you can work on yourself. Where you can stretch your imagination and find what you love to do. Your Goals as well as your Gratitude for what you already have in your life are the foundation for creating a massive imagination. You know the one when you think back to when you were a child. My couch had Warp Drive and I was the captain of my own ship. You still can be today.

Today – we’ll start by a review of this and exactly how you can do it. We will peel back the onion a bit and show you how you can do this for yourself. We will open the call wide as we do on Friday’s and see how people are coming along with not only their understanding but their progress from anyone who wishes to share.

Next week we’ll conclude our series for Mindset Merchants. I look forward to amping things way up as for the next review of information an Enormous amount of material and exercises will be added. In addition, late this summer, for those that are looking to gather at a particular place where a real mastermind will take place while having a Blast, stay tuned for there will indeed be big surprises coming.

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Awareness — Know what you are doing to Yourself

david — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 13:25:37 +0000

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Awareness — Know what you are doing to Yourself

This week, we have had the awesome privilege of extraordinarily feedback from the group. It’s no wonder as we are going through a process of self evaluation designed to raise our awareness as to why we are behaving a certain way. My intention with all of this is to make certain of several things.

I want you to be aware of when you are stopping yourself. When you are doing things that are counter intuitive to you achieving what you truly desire. Some of us spend years trying to figure out why a certain thing in our lives does or does not work. We all have an expectation of exchange and that expectation of exchange or perception of what the world should show us, hand us, or make easy for us.

In that expectation, that perception, exists a set of emotions that some of us are aware of that we control. We control them by THINKING not DRIFTING. The path we carved this week was to show you precisely the mechanics behind all of this and I believe the feedback illustrates that about 80% of you are getting it. However, about 20% of you are struggling with this. Some got downright Pissed Off……

Once you are aware of what and how you are using the Law of Attraction, whether it be through blind ignorance and drifting, or actually making and taking that big step in taking responsibility for your thoughts – YOU then control the law of attraction.

The moment you absolve yourself from responsibility is the moment you give control to whatever your excuse is for not choosing your thoughts and perspectives.

One of the Best Napoleon Hill quotes I have ever seen explains my motivation for bringing these things into your vision or understanding :

If you are so inclined, you can always find dozens of reasons why something can’t or shouldn’t be done — and precious few why it should or could. It is far easier to rationalize that it’s too difficult, too expensive, or too time-consuming than to accept the idea that if we are willing to work hard enough, smart enough, and long enough we can accomplish anything. Instead of making a commitment, we make up an alibi. If you find that you frequently invent excuses for why you didn’t do something or have a million reasons why something didn’t work out as planned, it’s time for a reality check. Stop explaining and start doing!

So today I will recap a few very important points and then we’ll roll into the Open Forum that we do on Friday’s. Those whom I offended or who are confused I call you out in front of everyone to speak your mind and belief’s. There are other people who won’t, who will hide behind emails and in the corner and believe it or not – your challenges will REALLY ASSIST THEM. I am not here to judge you or anyone for that matter. I am on your path so instead of Excuses and Alibis —– You begin to create the life your desire with NO EXCUSES.

So LET’S DO IT!!!

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david — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 13:14:01 +0000

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“To accomplish great things we must not only dream but also act, must not only plan but also believe.” – Anatole France

In the spirit of SUPER INSPIRATION let’s take a good look at the above quote. I bring this to you today for if you look at my directives to you as well as the way I operate…. This is precisely my prescription for changing things NOW!!

A Brand new associate in one of my activities began with me last night. The persistence with which Anthony called me was borderline crazy. Meaning the Phone rang at 9:09 ; 9:30 ; 9:55 ; 10:12 ; and Finally, reluctantly pulling myself from Family at 10:27 in the evening, I received not only a new superstar but someone who is absolutely going to teach me a thing or two.

We had a conversation that admittedly DID NOT start with me being warm and fuzzy but me inquiring as to why this had to happen at 10:27 PM in the evening, he was in Central Standard Time. The lesson began with the answer to that question : Why is this necessary to complete tonight – can we pick this up in the morning, I am doing a school project with my daughter right now and we must finish tonight….. His answer back was – then why did you answer the phone??? (LOLOL).

He went on to say that he had looked things over about 12 times. All the times before his last viewing of a presentation, meant nothing. He had come to yesterday’s Mindset Call and caught bits and pieces while running his Cattle Farm. He picked up something very interesting. His Purpose never really was Cattle. It was in fact moving in the direction of learning about Motivation and teaching that to others. Once he understood that attached to the opportunity was a place where he could learn to be ALIVE again, he stated that at any cost he would want to learn what he felt from the call would instill belief in himself and give him the ability to be free of Cow Chips.

So we began working together. In the conversation were MANY little lessons of clarity concerning what was about to happen with his life and what he brought to my attention (again). So I will review step by step with you some of those principles and the outline of what this guy is doing. He is INDEED Dreaming with BELIEF and TAKING MASSIVE ACTION (Admittedly even more action than I usually take).

A TON of very Great Motivating info was exchanged and also a story he told me of why it was time for a real change – for him and why he is ALLOWING the current challenges he faces to take him to a much better place.

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The Next 5 Minutes : What R U %^!%!!* THINKING, I MEAN CREATING??

david — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 12:38:30 +0000

The Next 5 Minutes : What R U *%^*!%!!* THINKING, I MEAN CREATING??

Everyday begins new lessons for me with the Law of Attraction. Maintaining that focus on the fact that what we think of most and focus our energy and attention on Creates our lives with and for us moment by moment. By knowing this and repeating a number of things I do on a daily basis, it creates a “Habit of Thoughtful Creation”.

Yesterdays reinforcement lessons came twice….. First when I was doing a training for Social Power Promotions and then a second time in some one on one training of a BRAND NEW person in one opportunity.

In both cases I stopped, paused, and listened to their answer to one particular question right before we began reaching out to people. When I state reaching out to people I mean calling back either potential first calls of initial contact and ALSO follow up calls after they viewed a presentation.

In those two situations it happened. As I listened to their answers and what they were focused on I was not shocked but very very surprised at the thoughts —- particularly their thoughts on how the upcoming situation would turn out. Just prior to asking the questions of these people I was very clear that they intellectually “GET IT” —- the Law of Attraction that is. However as soon as they dropped their technical understanding of it and “went to work” the focus of what they are or were really thinking came to pass.

Today we’ll look at that. We’ll really peel the onion down further than we have before and I will show you not just in statement as to what the Law of Attraction IS or DOES – but exactly how, in these circumstances, I used to practice the same FAUX PAS. Then I will show you exactly what I do now. There is a difference. So I will show you that difference and we’ll go one step further – I’ll show you that this Creatively Visualizing Thought Process CAUSES us to behave and say certain things and in a certain way. That behavior IS what causes the Creative Visualizations to become “REALITY”.

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Connecting – Wrapping up the Week on – Connecting

david — Fri, 30 Mar 2012 14:00:17 +0000

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Connecting – Wrapping up the Week on – Connecting

This week we went down the path of beginning to see what you are actually saying to people. That is if you took the step to become a professional and recorded yourself so you can hear what you are barking out. You now have a clear understanding of how to establish a warmth in the opening of a conversation or at the start of a relationship. You have begun the process of listening to people and not speaking over them. You understand what Resonance means. You even now are gaining an understanding of their perspective.

So today we’ll review things and see from the groups perspective IF what they have learned this week is being put to use and how. I welcome questions and feedback. Many of you participated in a promotion with Social Power Promotions – this gave you the tremendous advantage of daily training whereby you actually get to listen to me apply what I stated to you in this weeks training’s. Just in Wednesday to Thursdays training’s people got to see just how these methods can be applied and they got to see living proof that 80-90% of the people I speak to for the first time – go and watch the videos as we called them both in prospecting and in follow up.

So this morning I will take a few moments and review precisely how all of these elements and methods are used in harmony with the Law of Attraction. Further I will run through a couple of scenarios and make this clear in story form. The methods once again brought success into my life and many people have already heard it begin. Once we review these situations I will open it up for conversation and feedback from all on this process of meeting and enrolling people so that they are just as motivated to learn about what you have to offer as you are to offer it.

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Connecting Part 2 : Their Perspective

david — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 13:05:53 +0000

Connecting Part 2 : Their Perspective

Yesterday we covered The Resonance that must be created to have an awesome connection with another human being. We learned very clearly that this resonance is akin to understanding what the other human being is looking for enough so that you can play their tune (if you will) on your stereo for them.

We reviewed the number one way you can see what is going on is to actually record yourself in action on the Phone. There you will see exactly what you are creating. We discussed methods as to how you can set this up and record yourself and begin to see what you are doing – from who’s perspective – THEIRS.

Once of the most important things we can do is to come into any situation and first get a general feeling of the situation then through a combination of Intuition, listening, and questioning we begin to get our understanding of the communication. Understanding THEIR perspective, instead of instilling your perspective solely — is a key to opening the flood gates of communication. So today we’ll discuss all of those things that will comprise just how you can do that for yourself. It is imperative that you are able to obtain their objectives in the communication and then show up as THE SOLUTION. Then and only then do they have a reason to listen and ultimately “Follow the Leader”.

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Law of Attraction – Pixie Dust

david — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 14:08:33 +0000

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Foundation and Overall Structure Complete

Now We’ll Connect SOME of the Dots

We have set the foundation….. You understand that having a HEART and HEAD Filled with Gratitude is the absolute foundation of where to begin. Then through clarity of Were you want to go or what you want to have, you then have a purpose and destination. These Destinations are GOALS. The more goals you have the more on purpose you will become.

We covered “Words” and “Conditioned Thinking” in a manner that shows you how your own focus today, is a bi-product of your past as well as your own internal dialog, better known as conditioning. All of this was for a larger purpose, a much larger purpose. That was to make you aware that you and your emotions are at the center of what is developing second by second in each day of your life.

Once you see clearly why your Goals WERE or WEREN’T part of what you thought was possible…….. And you remove all of your own mental roadblocks…. And add the Magic Pixie Dust of Life : “GRATITUDE and LOVE”, you have reached the beginning. I know that sounds odd but now, after 3 weeks, we have reached the beginning. The beginning you ask, the beginning of what? It is the beginning of the EASIEST and HARDEST concept to grasp. It is the understanding and use of the “Pixie Dust” of the Law of Attraction”.

Remember in goal setting I ask that you experience all that you can above a goal. If a Car is the Goal, I asked that you experience EVERY FEELING or EMOTIONAL TIE you could possibly set up. I also recommended that you do this as close to a time that you have reflected on Gratitude as possible.

Today, I will give you the LOGIC (Not Opinion) on why this is the way it must be done to actually have Goals and Achievements Pop like Popcorn. When we complete this tie together, many of you will have a SHOCKING Ah Huh moment.Wear Your Seat Belt for Today… This will be an Eye Opener that will connect about 50% of the dots for most as it did me.

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David Varrone » Personal Development

Set Your Goals and Your Y

The Vision of Your Goals

Changing Your Mind…..

Mindset Merchants — Have a Vision and Take MASSIVE ACTION for YOU, INC.

Awareness — Know what you are doing to Yourself

The Next 5 Minutes : What R U *%^*!%!!* THINKING, I MEAN CREATING??

Connecting – Wrapping up the Week on – Connecting

Connecting Part 2 : Their Perspective

Law of Attraction – Pixie Dust

The Next 5 Minutes : What R U %^!%!!* THINKING, I MEAN CREATING??