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Tuesday, January 17th, 2012
MINDSET MERCHANTS DAILY CALL
Today’s Topic : Power vs. Force….. Today we’ll begin the journey down the path of instead of pressuring people into what you want them to do (FORCE), using the Law of Attraction, that will allow them to see your Natural Power.
Many people, when they become self employed are doing just that. Entering a world where whether they KNOW IT or NOT they must become a different person. They must become AWARE of two very important factors :
1) Their Vibration : The feelings that they are pushing out there that create feelings in others.
2) Their Integrity : Not just in the Sense of the real world definition of Integrity, but the feeling they are pushing out there with what they are saying or doing. Without alignment of those two things they can only force and have NO POWER.
The largest lesson in life I ever received was working with someone – whose words were the utmost of integrity, however, his VIBE, or the feelings he created were 100% Diametrically Opposed to his words. Therefor – no matter how hard we worked toward the stated excellent goal…. The situation was and still is powerless.
So today we’ll discuss this Power vs. Force thing. You will understand how I learned through that experience to bring 100% Integrity into my life and more importantly the dynamic reason WHY without forcing anyone I can build Great Teams that WANT to work together and make things happen.
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Tuesday, October 19th, 2010
Here is something most people do not consider; are your reacting or are you responding? One requires no thoughts, no on purpose selection of behavior, the other requires you to think. You must think about your behavior. You must make a choice as to how you allow whatever it is that is occurring to effect you. Why, because it is this constant course of behavior that will determine your attitude all day long. When in reaction mode your emotions run the show which can be very very chaotic. When in response you allow your thoughts to participate in the outcome of a situation. When your thoughts are involved you can make choices to change the direction of the situation. When only your emotions are involved – like attracts like – so if you fly on emotion it tends to increase or become more and more of what you are reacting to. Remember, emotionally you are transmitting a vibration, that vibration will attract more and more of the same vibration – Good or Bad.
SO LETS GIVE SOME EXAMPLES FOR CLARITY :
SITUATION : Lets set the table for this. Say the situation at hand is that you are driving down the road in your car. Someone comes up from behind you and begins tailgating you and you are on a fairly narrow, curvy road. Upon first notice you feel your vibration of aggravation creeping up on you. You begin to feel a twinge of anger. Your emotions begin to take hold….. This situation continues to expand as this individual continues to creep closer and closer to the back of your car. A few more moments pass by and then this individual moves his or her car around you and in the process passes you (Because you are beginning to react in anger you accelerate to make his action of passing that much more challenging). In doing so they cut so close to the front corner of your car that you must hit the brakes and swerve to avoid the two cars colliding.
REACTION : So now as your temper flares, you decide (And it is a decision) to pursue this lunatic. You are going to “show them” or give them piece of your mind. You begin to race after them. Letting go all sense of reality in driving angry and without caution. You chase the individual down and as your temper continues to flare, you engauge in the next non-productive reaction. A Confrontation. In this confrontation you end up in a physical or at the very least a mental and verbal battle that proceeds to waste even more of your time……. I need not go further as this situation could get worse and worse but you get the picture. Your reaction in anger takes you on a non productive path and even more unsettling time wasting chaos. As a result of all of this you end up 10 minutes late to an appointment. Then the person you are meeting with becomes annoyed at you for your vibration is of stress and anger. The purpose of the meeting goes unfulfilled for they don’t even wish to be around you…. See where I am going here?
RESPOND : Now lets assume the same thing happens to you and instead of reacting you decide to slow down and allow that tailgater to pass you buy. A few miles up the road you end up next to the tailgater and a light and you come to find that this person has a pregnant passenger in the the car with him – about to give birth. The person is not angry or hostile – remember your anger caused their anger in the REACTION….. This person is scared to death. You immediately render assistance and call for help. At the same time you call ahead to your appointment and let them know you will be late and why. As you describe with compassion what is going on and what you are doing your appointment feels that vibration and also begins to feel that compassion. Their vibration matches yours. Ultimately when you do meet up with your appointment you have a phenomenal meeting and accomplish exactly what you set out to do.
Now both these situations have a similar start and a dramatically different outcome. All because you chose to RESPOND instead of REACT. In studying human behavior, I have found this process of responding over – overreacting to be one of the largest leaps people can make in creating the life they really desire. It is an absolute Success Principle. The person that thinks and responds is in control of their future and the person that reacts has no control over anything.
Imagine if you slowed down and viewed every situation you encounter with the compassion and thought of more possibilities than just your emotional response….. Think about how many situations throughout your life that could have had a DRAMATICALLY DIFFERENT outcome if you chose to approach things from a different angle. Always remember the “Law of Attraction”, like it or not, it is always at work. The moment you make this choice to live life more on purpose and with thought and focus on what you do want instead of an emotional reaction in trying to change what is going on is the moment life becomes AWESOME. It becomes awesome for you have become on purpose and no longer are your pure emotions recreating what you don’t want.
Remember that the “Law of Attraction” will recreate and re-attract exactly what your EMOTIONS and THOUGHTS are focused upon. So today in as many situations as you can, make a choice. Make a choice to RESPOND and not REACT and I believe you will see some tremendous changes in life turning out just the way you wanted it to in the first place. Make sure you use your emotional charges for the great things around you and for the right things with the people you love and watch what happens.
Elevate
The principles discussed here are in a phenomenal life changing product : “Elevate”. Elevate is the core of the teachings involved in a business designed to change not only lives but peoples personal finances. In doing so we create wealth for people in a home based business – Avant. The biggest gift in this business is not the money but the fact that we make fortunes not for the sale but for the life changes when people begin to REACT instead of RESPOND….
Tags: Achieve what you desire, Anger, Awareness, David J. Varrone, Enjoy Life, Freedom Time and Money, Home Based Business, Love Life, Personal Development, Personal Development Home Business, React, Respond, Sherry Varrone
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Friday, August 27th, 2010
Entrepreneur – Are You One? Now that’s an interesting question. Even today after nearly 20 years being one, I often ask myself that question. Why ? Some of you reading this may think – why would an Entrepreneur ask himself such a question if he already is? Well the answer to that in my mind is one of checking one’s own path, one’s own commitment to his or her dreams and goals, and most importantly; are they creating something for the benefit of others so that not only do they personally grow but so that all of the people that do business with them also receives an experience whereby they come away with more than they originally engaged me for.
Entrepreneurs, which I do believe I am, are creators and trail blazers. They must create a product or a service which brings something different to the world or marketplace they are in. When they do, they then and only then, do they have a perceived value. Years ago in manufacturing I created a niche in business of constructing product based upon a designers idea’s. The value that I added was one where I took the vision of what that designer created and then made it into something that could be produced and used in everyday sportswear while knowing that the general public wants something that looks amazing (just like the designer designed it) but was bullet proof. Meaning it had to look Magnificent while being constantly abused and mishandled.
I was in Textile Fabric and Garment Manufacturing. I had learned great technical knowledge as a factory worker as a teenager and placed all that knowledge behind the simple fact that an Artist would design stuff often as fragile as an egg shell that would have to be interpreted and then recreated for the real world.
So what does that have with being an Entrepreneur or where does that play into questioning oneself about being or becoming one. Well here is the connection…. You see everyday as an Entrepreneur you will be faced with idea’s, concepts, challenges, and people. In those face offs, if you come to the table with the Positive “Never Giving Up” attitude you can take those marvelous egg shells and create a niche in every single engagement.
As a Home Business Coach and Entrepreneur, this is what I absolutely teach people to do. I show them precisely how to turn any situation they are involved in into an opportunity to serve themselves as well as those they are involved with. This creates a VERY POSITIVE ATMOSPHERE that promotes new ideas and new ways of doing things. This creates Niches within highly competitive industries and allows people to discover their own talents and create their own successes. I am no Guru, but I absolutely do know how to show you that we ALL can be Entrepreneurs if we choose. It is precisely why I am able to take an average struggling home business owner, show them this process, and then immediately get results that create wealth – REAL WEALTH. So as you ask yourself this question when reading this Blog – feel free to reach back out to me as I just may guide you to where you have always wanted to go. You can always call me at 954-349-7386.
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Tuesday, August 17th, 2010
I find myself in such an interesting position these days. I am in a incredible leadership position at a Hybrid MLM Direct Sales Company Avant ™. Hybrid meaning we are not just a direct sales company with retail profits but we are also a company that has many layers of residual income. I enjoy both sides of our compensation plan, every day I am able to generate profits upfront in retail and every week I also get to enjoy residual income from a rapidly growing organization. Over the past few days I had an interesting experience and it inspired me to share with all those looking at this blog. I sent quite a few people to a presentation where they heard many of my business associates announcing results from the use of Elevate ™ in their lives, our core product, and then a number of people announcing their personal financial results. The responses that I began to get from people were challenging, very challenging.
So I took a step back and began analyzing my own view of not only those around me who are having stellar results at Avant ™ , but in general I began to see something I had never seen before. There are some people you can absolutley feel are empowered and their vibration dictates total leadership and not only are they getting those results but they are in fact exceeding them. So I dug further. I keep all my personal journals over the years and I went back on a fact finding missions to see the vibration of myself on weeks that I had created an income (yes in one week) in excess of $20,000 and there it was. It was a vibrational display of the magnificence and harmony of life when desires and goals are in flow with what is actually going on. So as you all begin to look into the home based business industry and you hear results from products and particularly income claims listen not so much to the words but to the vibrations. If the vibrations sound like a symphony of sound that immediately gets through – well there you have a leader blazing a path you can follow. If it sounds like a band out of tune – well there you also have it it is a liar. This is what I advised all of those challenging people.
So crucial is it that you identify this, for if you do you will connect with a life changing product as well as an income you never dreamed possible. Six and a half years ago I found a company that did this for me. Then there was a time where that magic disappeared as the company changed and ownership changed. The Music left that Band. Today I am fortunate enough to have been reunited with that magic and the symphony that occurs in everything this company does. It is why it is one of the fastest growing companies in the direct sales industry. Clearly it has the ability to totally change lives and while doing that remove all limitations on what one person is capable of. I believe it will be one of the few companies in history to have many multiple 7 figure income earners.
So as you read this remember if you begin to recognize the vibrations sent and felt, you will know for sure whether it is Lies or Leadership. Here at Avant ™ we are a leadership factory that brings harmony back into your soul with a product called Elevate ™. Come see and enjoy for yourself. You are the only one standing in the way of you becoming a leader in all aspects of your life. Why not live the life of your dreams???
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Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010
So lets think about this for a moment….. What exactly is a goal ? The dictionary defines it as : 1) the mark set as a limit to a race…. an area to be reached safely in a child’s game ; 2) Aim or Purpose (We are getting warmer here on #3) ; An area or object toward which PLAY is directed to score ; Or perhaps 4) a successful attempt to score.
Often times in creating an environment where we can assist others this has to be more clearly defined. So here is my take on it : A Goal is something that you strongly desire to achieve, so much so that you are willing to step out of being comfortable or step out of your “daily routine” to do things in alignment with achieving that goal. It should be measurable. It should be a clear picture of what your heart and mind desires; something that you desire strongly enough to take action on NOW. You should also be able to clearly see yourself in accomplishment of that goal in your mind.
This definition of a Goal is how I describe this to people when we are setting a system of goals in place to build their own home business. When an individual sets time aside to create these big Juicy Mental Images, they begin to rekindle their dreams. They again become self motivated and inspired to take action. Look around you today, and before you sit down and put a list together of goals – look around you and carefully review the people that have a ton of goals, a ton of inspiration. They are energized and full of life. On your ride to and from work – look around you at all the projects in work. Look at the road construction – it is a goal. Look at some construction of buildings – it is a goal. In fact, for some the mere goal of making it home in time for dinner tonight is a goal……
After you play with these thoughts, sit down and think about your life. Really think about it. Are you in the Home you desire? Are you in the Job or Career you desire? Are you in the Car you desire? If not, ask yourself – WHY NOT? These questions, while they may be a bit uncomfortable, are the beginning of knocking some cob webs out of your brain. Do you remember, as a child, how persistent you may have been while going after something you wanted??? You had a goal in mind and you relentlessly envisioned and asked for it. Go back to that state of thinking and begin to question why you may have given up your goals; then start all over again. Set some uncomfortable BIG HUGE goals, then allow that anxiety of how BIG they are and how difficult they will be to achieve, to fuel your ambition to get them. Then take action NOW!
Goals are the key to taking a bite out of life and having what you desire. When you are indeed having life on your terms think of the positive vibration you give to others. Think of how awesome it is that you brighten someone’s day. These are why goals are so vital. You have control over this if you take it. So today, do some of these exercises, and set some goals. Take a bite out of life and regain some of that childlike inspiration. Spread it around and affect the people around you in a positive manner. I know in my heart you will be pleasantly surprised as to how it goes. So set some goals!
Here is a link that will assist you in goal setting : http://www.topachievement.com/smart.html
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Thursday, July 29th, 2010
When I think about visualization, I think of it as a tool. Often people do not realize just how incredibly powerful they are and how their visualizations, GOOD or BAD, actually pave a way for that mental picture to become a reality. We, as human beings, are creative creators.
Think about it from an architect’s perspective. He or she dreams of a building or home - visualizes it. He then begins to sketch out the design. Then takes his or her idea to whomever they were providing this service for, and based on clarity and enthusiasm he or she then begins to enroll that person, or group of people, in their vision. Once this vision is accepted, the clients then begin to push the resources into his flow of vision and before too long a building or home is built.
So how does this relate to you and I? It’s actually quite simple. As we begin to think and dream, mental pictures are created. The clearer and more defined the mental picture the more passion we will begin to develop in that direction. When we begin to get really passionate, we begin to share those dreams and visualizations; we begin to enroll people all around us in the possibility of that vision becoming true.
There is evidence all around us of this. The telephone on your desk at one point was a vision in Alexander Graham Bell’s mind. The home you live in was a thought – a Vision – in someones mind. The car you drive also started as a vision. We, as human beings were created with this ability. It works on small and large scales.
At Avant we teach people precisely how to sharpen this skill so that you can have the life you really want – by design. Check out www.weareavant.com . Begin to see our visualization. Begin to see what we can do for you.
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Friday, July 23rd, 2010
Good Morning to all those visiting and reading these micro lessons on personal development. Today I have a special share for as I build Home Based Businesses with others for a living , I can’t help but notice and focus on some interesting things as I become aware of them.
I became aware yesterday of how important it is to not get hung up on the ignorant comments of others. Sometimes people that are influential in your business or on your path allow their Ego to broadcast messages that ultimately, if you allow them to, create resistance. It is through awareness of the behavioural patterns of those individuals that they lose the power to have any effect on you. In fact, as you become aware, you can isolate their comments in your life as nonsence. When you accomplish this they cannot create resistance but actually begin to serve you in the elevation of your awareness and presence to the here and now.
So if you have someone who is a person whom you felt as important to your life on on your path of growth, take only what serves you from their commentary or guidance. It is your focus of energy and thought that gives their guidance meaning. You get to choose the impact they have on your life.
So choose wisely on the focus of what people are saying around you as this is the first step in taking responsibility to a level where YOU have control and THEY DO NOT. Focus on the good that these individuals bring into your life not the crap that they ignorantly bring to the table. There is greatness in many of my mentors yet sometimes they choose to play EGO and then, well when ego controls the situation they bring crap. So choose not to focus on crap and then for sure you will notice resistance to what you are truely after falling by the wayside.
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Thursday, July 22nd, 2010
As I begin to flow more into Blogging, as it is not something I would choose to do without a significant reason as to “WHY”, it became apparent to me that clarity needs to be brought to this aspect of being in business. Your “WHY” is the bottom line basis for what you will be doing for a living. This is especially important for an Entrepreneur, as your “why” in a sense becomes your boss. Perhaps a better way to state that is that your “Why” becomes your guiding light through any challenges to make things happen.
You have to sit down and clear your mind and really think. If you have a ton of reasons “why” you are to be taking consistent action in your own business you will begin to see clearly that path to being in constant action. Your “why” creates a vibration of surety and relaxed confidence that you are running your business for a purpose and not to just make money. Sure, money is a component, but it is a bi-product of providing service to others in persuit of your “WHYS”.
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Sunday, June 27th, 2010
Making Money from home was simply an Idea for the few 20 years ago. Today more and more people are seeking this out as a way of life. Family and Business Intertwined. Right now one of the largest Employers worldwide – is “SELF”. Self Employment with the right situation and right combination of tools is the ultimate way to take control of your life and your finances.
You work from home, You’re your own boss and you answer to no one but yourself. You may have worked years or even decades at a regular job, but now you get to make your own rules and set your own hours. There’s no need to fight the alarm clock every morning, nor is there any reason to go to bed early at night. Since you’re your own boss, you don’t have to worry about getting written up, laid off, or fired.Since you’re reaping all the benefits of working from home, you’re also stuck with the responsibilities. You’re in charge of every aspect of your home business, which means you have to handle the bad along with the good.
One of the biggest challenges you’ll ever face is motivation. Many individuals working from home are content with just earning enough money to get by, and don’t strive to take their small business to the next level. If you find yourself slacking from time to time, then you need a good motivation boost.
Here are some tips to help you stay motivated:
Take some time to think about why you started working from home to begin with. Was it because you wanted freedom? Was it for the money? Were you having trouble finding a job anywhere else? In other words, what motivated you to start your own small business in the first place? Try invoking the same feelings again, and you will find yourself motivated once more.
Set goals for yourself. They don’t necessarily have to be large goals-in fact, you will be better off setting small and easy goals. Try to get through one step at time. Plan to work an hour more every day. Try earning an extra $1000 a week. What about $5000?
Create a vision board. A vision board can be a wallpaper or collage of everything you want in life. It can include pictures of your dream car, dream home, yacht, land, famous places that you want to visit, and so forth. Anytime you need a boost of motivation, just look at your vision board! It will remind you of everything you can obtain if you work hard enough.
If you’re not feeling very inspired and your creative juices aren’t flowing, don’t force yourself. The more aggravated you become, the less motivated you’ll be. You also won’t be able to produce quality content when you’re feeling down. It’s ok to take breaks. Sometimes lack of motivation doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re not doing any work-it could also mean that you’re working TOO hard. Lie down to read a book or take a nap if you have to. Sometimes a bit of rest is all we need to stay motivated.
Working toward goals and taking breaks may seem contradictory, but they both play an important role in motivation. You can work and still rest. There is time enough to do both. Napping doesn’t necessarily equate to laziness. Laziness is when you don’t even try to motivate yourself.
Never let yourself forget why you’re working from home. You are luckier than most people out there. You don’t have to trudge to work every day slaving away for a thankless boss. Be thankful that you have freedom and independence that most people don’t. As long as you can stay motivated and focused, your earning potential is unlimited and you can live a lifestyle most people only dream about.
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