Posts Tagged ‘The Secret’

Why Gratitude ? Because…….

Monday, October 11th, 2010

So whats all this nonsense about Gratitude? Why do we hear this over and over again? “You must be in a state of Gratitude!!!” At first thought, years ago when I began studying Personal Development, I asked myself – Gratitude about what? Am I missing something? I am working on myself and not yet “there” so what am I to be grateful about? I really did not understand vibrational matches and being something that you are working towards in feeling first. That vibration allows the universe to bring things onto your path that will allow the exact things that will make you grateful to become “easy” and just happen naturally.

Each and every person has a choice to  either have an emotional response or an emotional reaction to everything that happens to them. It is at that very moment over and over again that we have a choice to react or respond. In that very moment we transmit a vibration that absolutely communicates to the universe that we want more of whatever that broadcast sent out.

Think about the most wonderful feelings you have ever felt of Love or Passion for a moment. Concentrate on those feelings; bring out a memory of your significant other and the passion and love you have felt for them. Really feel it and hold onto that feeling for a moment. Can you begin to feel the vibrations that this thought creates? Now take that one step further. Lock onto those vibrations and engage in a conversation with that person and take notice of what is happening. Choose to become aware of how they are reacting to your warm charged feelings. Notice how their behavior begins to warm up to you. Carefully notice the fact that your vibrational broadcast created a feeling, no matter how slight or trivial, in this other person of connection and of warmth as well. Really think about this as you do it and become cognizant of just how powerful you are at causing things in your relationships. It is easiest to see in a relationship with someone you are close to. Know for certain this is actually at play on this positive side of the spectrum of the Law of Attraction as it is on the negative side of this Law.

Now lets take a look at the opposite side of the spectrum. Complete Anger and Negativity. Perhaps someone wronged you in some way. You then turn around and become angry or broadcast an angry or negative feeling. Immediately that person reacts or responds in a similar way. In some cases out of defense to remove responsibility, in other situations to prove you wrong. Anger and Negativity are the complete opposite in the feelings associated or vibrations associated with being in a state of gratitude. Notice what happens with that person you are engaging with when you are OUT of Gratitude. Become aware of what occurs when you behave in an Angry or Negative or shall we say OUT of Gratitude Manner.

As you play these little exercises out come to KNOW that truly, the real way to get things done rapidly and with the assistance of not just others around you, but all aspect of the universe as well, is to be in a state of Gratitude. Only in that state of Gratitude will the Vibrational matches constantly and continuously be created – BY YOU. When this begins to happen life will fall into a flow and pattern of “Going Your Way”.

There are many steps and things you can do to get your mindset into a state of constant gratitude. Contact me and I will be more than happy to assist you in than manner. I use a product “Elevate“. It is an educational product that has assisted me in raising my awareness so that this all became clear to me. It was created by a company Avant. This has had a huge impact on every area of my life. Check this all out and any way I can assist further in sharing in this blog, comment back.

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Define Your Dreams – Step 1 in Making it Happen

Monday, October 4th, 2010

I coach and teach many people to expand their awareness with the use of a product Elevate. The reason I use Elevate is that it is a comprehensive program designed to lift them out of their “IF ONLY” thinking into one of more possibilities. It is essential for people to become aware of this fact for if life is constantly based on “If Onlys” then how could we ever grow or expand.

The first step in getting out of your own way is to eliminate the following thoughts and statements from your vocabulary :

1) When I have _______________, I will be happy.

2) When I fix _______________, I will be happy.

3) I need _______________, then I will be happy.

We must start in a place of being grateful for what we have by literally making a list, an inventory of all that is already in our lives. Once the list is compiled it is essential that we clearly look at our perspective of each and every thing. We must change our perspective of each and every thing in our lives so that we are in appreciation of them or it. One example would be a dog. Dogs can be a kind loving addition to a family, bonding them together with memories and fun. When cared for, a dog gives its love of the family unconditionally. That is one perspective. Another perspective is one of a tiresome responsibility to have the dog. That perspective is full of “work and aggravation”. Cleaning, feeding, taking care of the animal none of which is empowering or feels good or even has one ounce of Gratitude in it.

Once we have a great gratitude filled perspective we can, from there, begin to dream up what we would be grateful for if those dreams became part of our experience. It is essential that we set the stage in a feeling of future gratitude; for that energy is the energy that will drive us to do everything we will be required to achieve the desired goals. This magical way of allowing thoughts to expand in the future gratitude allows us to see how we will feel in the future. Magically our own efforts, language and motivation push us in the direction of making things happen so that we achieve our dreams.

If you are interested in learning more – contact me – David Varrone at : 954-349-7386.

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The Law of Attraction – Vibrational Match

Monday, September 27th, 2010

As a founding member of one of the most extraordinary companies in the world – Avant (TM), I am constantly asked about “The Law of Attraction”. Constantly questioned on why I am able to create large sums of Income and large streams of success. Why is it so very easy for me and how come I can constantly duplicate the process over and over again?? The answer lies in your ability to create a Vibrational Match with whatever you desire in your life.

Often times we refer to this method of creating as “Be Do Have”. Be as the successful are “being”; Do as the successful are “doing”; And then you will have what the successful are “having”…..NOT SO FAST…. There is indeed a missing piece of this puzzle. In fact, unless you have the “Vibrational Match”, you could Be, Do and Attempt at Having, and it will just never manifest. So what we will outline today will give you the recipe not for “Be, Do, Have” but for achieving the Vibrational Match, that when practiced will remove all the mystery as to why your goals may or may not be manifesting. We will then clarify what you must physically do and think to bring Vibrational Harmony into play so the Law of Attraction works in your life – TODAY!!!

Since everything is “Vibrational” or works based on the feeling surrounding all of the situations we get into, we must become aware of this. Not only must we become aware of this, but must understand that the feeling, or vibrations, must be in total harmony with who you wish to be or what you strongly desire. If we have a desire or goal and the feeling surrounding that dream or desire is not in harmony then you are actually supplying resistance to exactly what you want.

You must ask yourself  “what will it FEEL like to be there or to have that certain thing?”  To use all of the power available to you when you ask yourself this question you MUST feel the wonder of all of the experience of already having it or being there.  If you view yourself as NEEDING it, you are out of vibrational harmony.  If you find yourself feeling that you might be there or might be there soon, you are not in vibrational harmony.  If you are sitting there and justifying WHY you must have it or WHY you are entitled to it, you are supplying resistance to it.  If you are desiring something to compensate for something else, you are not there and you are using The Law of Attraction against you.  However, if your feelings are in total GRATITUDE & APPRECIATION of already having it, already loving the experience of appreciating it, then YOU ARE THERE. When your expectations are accompanied by a vibration of knowing it is coming and this causes a tingle in your belly in its arrival, YOU ARE THERE. At that very moment that tingle IS “The Law of Attraction” in action.

Here is another exercise to check your vibration; and this will assist you in building a business towards real life results and wealth.

How do you REALLY REALLY FEEL about Rich People? If your thinking about Rich People is that, “well I’ll be different when I am rich”.  If there is a feeling of the “Rich” being a separate entity  or separate from you, then you are using the Law of Attraction against yourself.  Notice the feeling surrounding “those rich people” as you separate yourself from them….. The rich are NOT separate.  When you do this, this is what’s known as Vibrational Discord or Resistance. Removing and reshaping your thinking surrounding this allows you to dramatically increase the vibration in harmony with your desired experience.

So the first step in this recipe is to become aware.  Take ownership of the fact that you have made the choice to feel the way you do.  You are the one who separated yourself from the rich by your chosen feelings.  Once you allow yourself to be untied with them and experience things from the perspective of acceptance and belonging, and explore those feelings, you then will be using The Law of Attraction and Vibrationally Matching your strongest desires.  I encourage you to do so and join those people doing this who are experiencing life to its fullest.

Try this over the next few days and then come back here and comment on your results.  I will add a post later this week that will build upon this and allow you to take this further.  There will be more instructions on exercises that you can do to increase the speed at which you manifest things in your life. Over the next 10 Blog Entries, you will learn the methods I use to have the Law of Attraction work in every area and aspect of my life. Tune in and learn and you will receive an enormous gift.

In Gratitude – David Varrone.

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The Echo of Life – It’s Really Your Subconscious

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

Recently I had the Opportunity to be in a large empty stadium and one of my children yelled out – and of course it echoed back. As always when you hear an echo it is indeed amusing. A re-sounding of a statement made out to the world comes right back at you. The larger the area, chamber, or “stadium” you are in, the longer the phrase is that repeats back to you without it repeating over itself. Ever wonder why echo’s exists? Well I believe they exists for one of those little BIG lessons in life.

Your daily living and thoughts are your own personal echo chamber. You see what you tell your self in thoughts and in out loud verbalization’s echo back. Since your mind is truly infinite in its capacities, the statements we make to ourselves can be volumes long and ALL of them do indeed “echo”. The more we concentrate on a thought the more we hear that thought. The more we hear that thought and verbalization of it especially, the more it becomes a “mantra”. The more it becomes a “Mantra” the more it becomes who we are.

So it is very important to allow thoughts that move us in the direction of our goals and dreams, of who we wish to be. Then the “ECHO” of life works for us instead of against us. If we choose thoughts in the knowing of what we want and verbalize them – then and only then are we using the “Law of Attraction” to its fullest power. Focused thoughts on Positive Goal Motivated Activities create space in our minds to actually then go and do, and carry out actions that will cause all that we are wishing for to come into our lives.

So today, pretend your thoughts and vocal statements were all screamed out loud in an large stadium. Listen for that Echo back and notice your feeling surrounding the echo back. Notice and become AWARE that this echo is actually what your subconscious is hearing. KNOW that your subconscious wastes no time in creating actions that will fulfill what it is hearing as your desires.

So as you begin becoming aware of this remember – the echo is what the subconscious hears, therefor a great deal of caution must be used in what is screamed out there…. Outlined below I will give you a couple of good examples and a couple of funny and not so good examples :

GOOD

1. I am loosing weight and getting healthier and healthier each day

- The subconscious mind will support you and guild you to more physical activities and a healthier eating style.

2. I am really accomplishing a great deal in my work. Sales are actually many times greater than my goals were. My income is skyrocketing.

- The subconscious mind will then allow excitement to come into play and motivation to do more and achieve more will occur. This will actually create an environment that will allow you to do just what you allowed to echo.

3. I am an excellent cook and create healthful and nutritional meals.

- This will actually create a pattern of thoughts and actions that will allow you to seek out healthful foods and recipies and create them.

NOT-SO-GOOD

1. I am feeling Fat and Out of Shape.

- This will create a feeling of not being able to become healthy. Your subconscious will assist you in giving up on being healthy. You will eat the wrong things and never work towards exercise or eating healthy.

2. I will never hit my Income Goals – I will never be that number one Sales / Customer Service / Engineer….

- This will allow your subconscious mind to “GIVE UP”. It will allow your subconscious mind to create an environment where you don’t go the extra mile to make things happen. You “WILL NEVER” so Why Bother.

So here you have a micro lesson in “The Law of Attraction”. Your mind is the most powerful creative tool you have. Controlling the focus of thought allows you to harness it’s power. The thoughts you choose to focus on with emotion creates who you will be and how you will behave. Controlling this is so very important. What I do for a living is teach precisely how to do that. Avant, a company I am a Founding Participant in, is all about AWARENESS. We teach you how to do all of this so you not only control the Echo of Life, you become the master and creator of your life instead of living it by chance and as a victim.

I am an experienced life-coach that ties all of this into a format to maximize results in your life or business. I offer one on one consultations so that you get results in your life. If you are in business or would like to be, then reach out and contact : David Varrone at 954-349-7386. My door is always open to assist people in these transformations. I have watched and assisted many who clean up the Echo’s and that has been phenomenal. People get to achieve what they truly desire and it happens FAST. I look forward to being of service.

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Beleif or Knowing – What’s the Difference?

Monday, August 30th, 2010

To have “belief” in something means that you have confidence in something without necessarily having concrete evidence that it is. To “know” or to be “knowing” of something means that you not only believe that something is, but you have evidence to support that belief is indeed for real. So where does that come into play in the world of a Home Based Business or in Personal Development? Well, simply put, often before we ever know we must fly on belief that something will occur, that a business can indeed be established and make a profit.

So the question is, how do we do that? How do we develop a belief in something so that it warrants our efforts behind it? Nearly every single day in the last 6 years of being in a Home Based Business I am asked that very question, “David – it all sounds good but how do we know it is indeed possible”?  My answer is very simple, spend some time and listen to exactly what the successful are doing in a Home Based Business.

In my case it is simple.  I chose a company with amazing products in the field of Personal Development for I knew that would allow me to create not only a vision of success, but it would assist me in creating exactly what I visualize in terms of success.  I chose Avant (TM); for its products allow each of us to explore the power of our own visualizations and all that is possible.  It also allows us to focus all energy, time and resources in a manner never seen before. Ultimately Avant also compensates each of its Home Based Business Owners in a manner that is absolutely NOT duplicated anywhere in world, in any business.  Once you understand their products and what they have to offer – all explained in a teleconference, you can listen to a recorded version at : 1-618-355-1590,  or you can listen to it live online at TELECONFERENCE – it almost becomes a “no-brainer” to get involved and share something that will effect and change the lives of every single person that touches the products or business.

Simply put, the products are like no other.  Never  before in the history of Personal Development has something been created that puts the power of YEARS or even a LIFETIME of study into a complete program that creates results the first day you touch it and then amplifies those effects exponentially over time.  When you couple that with a compensation plan that creates 6 figures part time, and a residual of over 6 figures for retirement, you have something that will completely take care of an individual both personally and financially.

I invite all that read this blog to tune in now 2-3 times per week.  In that you will find bits and pieces, lessons on parts of what you will receive major lessons on in Personal Development.  For those that wish to become involved as a Mentored Business Partner, the future holds some great things for you, and I look forward to assisting you.

As always, feel free to contact my home office at 954-349-7386.

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Entrepreneur – Are You One?

Friday, August 27th, 2010

Entrepreneur – Are You One? Now that’s an interesting question. Even today after nearly 20 years being one, I often ask myself that question. Why ? Some of you reading this may think – why would an Entrepreneur ask himself such a question if he already is? Well the answer to that in my mind is one of checking one’s own path, one’s own commitment to his or her dreams and goals, and most importantly;  are they creating something for the benefit of others so that not only do they personally grow but so that all of the people that do business with them also receives an experience whereby they come away with more than they originally engaged me for.

Entrepreneurs, which I do believe I am, are creators and trail blazers. They must create a product or a service which brings something different to the world or marketplace they are in. When they do, they then and only then, do they have a perceived value. Years ago in manufacturing I created a niche in business of constructing product based upon a designers idea’s. The value that I added was one where I took the vision of what that designer created and then made it into something that could be produced and used in everyday sportswear while knowing that the general public wants something that looks amazing (just like the designer designed it) but was bullet proof. Meaning it had to look Magnificent while being constantly abused and mishandled.

I was in Textile Fabric and Garment Manufacturing. I had learned great technical knowledge as a factory worker as a teenager and placed all that knowledge behind the simple fact that an Artist would design stuff often as fragile as an egg shell that would have to be interpreted and then recreated for the real world.

So what does that have with being an Entrepreneur or where does that play into questioning oneself about being or becoming one. Well here is the connection…. You see everyday as an Entrepreneur you will be faced with idea’s, concepts, challenges, and people. In those face offs, if you come to the table with the Positive “Never Giving Up” attitude you can take those marvelous egg shells and create a niche in every single engagement.

As a Home Business Coach and Entrepreneur, this is what I absolutely teach people to do. I show them precisely how to turn any situation they are involved in into an opportunity to serve themselves as well as those they are involved with. This creates a VERY POSITIVE ATMOSPHERE that promotes new ideas and new ways of doing things. This creates Niches within highly competitive industries and allows people to discover their own talents and create their own successes. I am no Guru, but I absolutely do know how to show you that we ALL can be Entrepreneurs if we choose. It is precisely why I am able to take an average struggling home business owner, show them this process, and then immediately get results that create wealth – REAL WEALTH. So as you ask yourself this question when reading this Blog – feel free to reach back out to me as I just may guide you to where you have always wanted to go. You can always call me at 954-349-7386.

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Resistance is Just Focusing on Nonsence

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

Good Morning to all those visiting and reading these micro lessons on personal development. Today I have a special share for as I build Home Based Businesses with others for a living , I can’t help but notice and focus on some interesting things as I become aware of them.

I became aware yesterday of how important it is to not get hung up on the ignorant comments of others. Sometimes people that are influential in your business or on your path allow their Ego to broadcast messages that ultimately, if you allow them to, create resistance. It is through awareness of the behavioural patterns of those individuals that they lose the power to have any effect on you. In fact, as you become aware, you can isolate their comments in your life as nonsence. When you accomplish this they cannot create resistance but actually begin to serve you in the elevation of your awareness and presence to the here and now.

So if you have someone who is a person whom you felt as important to your life  on on your path of growth, take only what serves you from their commentary or guidance. It is your focus of energy and thought that gives their guidance meaning. You get to choose the impact they have on your life.

So choose wisely on the focus of what people are saying around you as this is the first step in taking responsibility to a level where YOU have control and THEY DO NOT. Focus on the good that these individuals bring into your life not the crap that they ignorantly bring to the table. There is greatness in many of my mentors yet sometimes they choose to play EGO and then, well when ego controls the situation they bring crap. So choose not to focus on crap and then for sure you will notice resistance to what you are truely after falling by the wayside.

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